Why did she call me pathetic?

[Anonymous]

A girl I'm friends with was looking at my phone one day and saw I had a OkCupid profile and goes that's really sad and pathetic

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She even jokes I'm ugly and then goes I wasn't being serious

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Knowing I have low self esteem already

[Dingsbums]

Some people call others pathetic so that no one realizes that they are pathetic themselves but well maybe she means it or she was just teasing u

[Asker]

No she was being serious

[Dingsbums]

Then she said it like "you are not able to find people in to... you are only into sex"

[Dingsbums]

To=rl

[Asker]

No she even jokes I'm ugly

[Dingsbums]

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2290832-what-do-you-think-of-my-girlfriend
That's sad and pathetic lol

[Asker]

Dude I'm headed that route fast

[ThisDudeHere]

I assume she thinks that online dating is pathetic. While that is highly subjective, what is objectively true is that she's a crappy friend.

[Asker]

Multiple people have said this

[ThisDudeHere]

All the more reason for it to be true.

[Asker]

Well I guess I get what I get cause I don't have many friends

[ThisDudeHere]

Know that feel.

[Asker]

It sucks

[ThisDudeHere]

https://i.imgur.com/Pssncob.png

[AnaWryneck]

She's a bitch? I wouldn't use a dating site myself but thats not something that makes someone sad and pathetic

[Asker]

Yeah I have no other options

[AnaWryneck]

My big brother met his girlfriend on that site and he is not a loser he works a lot and not the club and random outtings kind of guy and they're adorable don't let anyone make you feel bad for doing something that's not wrong I wouldn't even want to be her friend it's just rude

[Asker]

Just makes me wanna give up dating

[AnaWryneck]

You're not dating her let alone I'm sure if someone's on a dating site it's to date ignore her and really reconsider your friendship I never understood how people think being friends is being rude and snide to each other

[Asker]

They most people think she's using me

[AnaWryneck]

There's no point in being her friend then I don't see how it benefits you she's mean as fuck like I can be an asshole but there's something's I don't even say

[Asker]

I don't really have many friends so I guess I get what I get

[AnaWryneck]

Don't settle

[Asker]

Why?

[AnaWryneck]

Because I personally would rather be alone than around someone who is going to be an asshole

[Asker]

Well I'm tired of being alone it's not hurt I'm desperate for a girlfriend I have been alone most of my adult life so far I want someone to be there

[Leandri]

Maybe she is jealous lol

[Asker]

No not really she is really hot

[Leandri]

I mean jealous cause she don't want you to get a girlfriend

[Asker]

And why's that

[Asker]

The ugly guy isn't allowed to get a girl

[Leandri]

not sure about the ugly part... but yeah so that is why she said it so that it would hurt your feelings so that you can feel like you are not good enough. I don't know that is just how I see it

[Asker]

https://imgur.com/Lb7So4Y Visual proof

[Anonymous]

ignore her and focus on the friends who are nice.

[Asker]

Don't really have any

[Opinion Owner]

so bc you don't have any you're "friends" with her?

[Asker]

Kinda

[Asker]

Gotta work with what you got