Why did my girlfriend ask me to choke her during sex?

[Anonymous]

At first we were like kissing in stuff and i was getting ready to put it in and when i did she was like please choke me. Me being me i didint want to because i didn't want to hurt her or anything but it was getting to the point where she was irritated that i wasn't choking her. Why did she want me to do this?

[Anonymous]

Tooooons of women love this.

But most of them don't want to be choked very hard. Some do.

Basically hold her by her throat. Control her position by her neck. Move her where you want. And put just a hint of pressure. She can still breathe she just feels utterly in your control.

Start like that see how it goes.

[NoDucks]

Because women like to feel conquered during sex. She wants you to assert your manly dominance on her during sex. She just want you to be a man.

[Anonymous]

I don't know anything really about it but I recently was reading something about it, it's for someone who's into BDSM play (like freaky sex). Google BDSM groups or something. But be careful there's a wrong way and a right way, you certainly don't want the wrong way. I think it's dangerous and I'm not into that n the BDSM play.

[Asker]

Yes thank you i find it very odd! All i did was i just out my hand around her throat i didn't apply any pressure and she seemed to be getting angry that i wasn't applying any pressure.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I think it is, i don't understand why someone would like it. Im guessing probably she had it done before or she knows about it, try asking her.

[kaylaS91]

Some people get off on feeling a mixture of pain+pleasure during sex. Plus, there's a huge mental component to feeling like you want your s/o so bad that you're willing to 'put up with' some resistance on an area of your body as vital as your neck just to get your sexual fix.

[karahiri]

breathlessness makes it more intense. don't kill her dude. just apply some pressure.

[Deadwalker189]

She likes it rough and it probably turns her on even more

[bg1987]

It turns her on pretty much.

[Anonymous]

That sounds awesome to me lol

[Viranda]

Because she likes it.