Girlfriend says I'm too predictable?

[trinovid]

not sure if this is the right section but here goes

my girlfriend says iv become too predictable and that she does not find me exciting anymore as it stand were still together but I don't know how long for

me and my girlfriend have been threw loads and I no that we both love each other but she says she is bored of the relationship because I'm too predictable...

she says that because I text her b4 I go sleep and when I wake up and say I love you a lot that the relationship is not exciting...

I'm asking weather you think I'm being too predictable because I always text her to say good night and good morning etc

or

am I just being normal? I'll admit that perhaps I do text her a lot

so should I change how I act when we are not with each other?

[LadyJSW]

Some people get bored easily and hate routine and when things are the same, they don't like it. Some people have to have new and things happening to excite them.

A relationship with this type of girl isn't going to be easy unless you are willing to surprise her, break the routine and do lots of new and different things with her.

Even then, in time she may get bored of you. But if you love her give it a shot. Just don't be predictable, don't call her for a couple of days, get her thinking and wondering why you haven't called, and make sure you do things different and don't get into the same old routine so she can predict what's coming next.

[kymidahl]

Ooooooohhhh! I'm having this problem with my boyfriend at the moment!

I just know eeeeeverything about him, I want him to do something different and crazy.

I don't know what, maybe like, make decisions, he hates making decisions. I want for him to take control! do what makes him happy and involve me in it, like going to watch the soccer.

but that;s my issue... lemme know when you come up with a solution for yours!

my advice to you; be spontaneous. write her a letter. take her on a surprise picnic, phone her instead of text? the possibilties are endless

[Yadi_18]

Well, sugar, its about time you spice things up. Try randomly adding things into you text that will be different, or as you are ffar apart show up with flower at her door step and instead of texting her good night/morning try calling or even showing up at her door just to say goodnight its small things that matter the most. Predictable isn't the proper word to use in this situation. I simply believe you are being too original and simple.

[chettah-two]

Solution, don't text her good night... how would you feel if your friend kept on texting good night every night... it may become boring.

Dont text her in the moring either...

Only text her when you need to. like "baby I'm thinkin about you..." "im horny.." etc.

Also you may be a bit too nice, soft, accomodating...

Make some decisions yourself, do something you want to do.. basically have an ACTIVE life not around her. Go out more with your mates..