How can I stop being predictable with my girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

so my girlfriend knows everything i say or do. I'm getting boring, I need to be exciting so she won't be bored. and specially so I won't be predictable. What can I do. Girls what would you want a relationship to be like so it won't be boring and have fun tell me tips girls? and guys what do you do to have the relationship strong?

[Louise123]

Wow, you are SO hard on yourself! Did your girl tell you that you were boring and

predictable? Or did you come to this conclusion yourself? You know how you become interesting? It's not doing carthweels and coming up with new forms of entertainment. You are not her entertainment committee.. Just understand that first. The most interesting people are the ones who are busy... they are living their lives - involved in activiites - coming and going... working at jobs they enjoy --- being happy people. When you get BUSY and not focus on HER and what SHE thinks... YOU will instantly become attractive. She will wonder why you are very busy and she has to grab special time with you. DO NOT BE SO AVAILABLE! AND you are not required to tell her EVERY little detail about your life.. Be more vague... Women love mystery - challenge -- I had a boyfriend who told me everything about everything and I got SO bored. He stopped doing that... and he became VERY attractive very fast. When you talk on the phone - be the first to hang up - don't drone on and on and listen to each other breathe. That is DULL. Don't always answer the phone when she calls.. Make her wait a a little while and then call back... Make her wonder what you are doing.. Sure, it sounds like games... but if you want to put some CHALLENGE into your relationship... STOP BEING SO AVAILABLE... It works. You sound like a good guy and that is a WONDERFUL thing. She will appreciate you more if you don't put it all out there -- hold a little info back. I'm not saying to lie - but to be... a little mysterious.. It's kind of fun and won't hurt her.. Worked for me. Good luck, Sweetheart.