I've been with her since September 5th last year after 6 months of crushing from the both of us. Nowadays she never seems interested about plans I come up with through text or in person. Most plans I come up with are cancelled anyways as she gets busy easily. In a few weeks I'll be moving to university and she will be getting a job so I'm trying to ask for days where we can have a sleepover, whether it be at her's or a hotel (it can't be at mine as my house has limited space). Yet she's saying she can't sleep at a hotel as she can't sleep in beds other than her own, when even before we started dating she slept on the floor during a friend sleepover, being the first to fall asleep. If she can't sleep in a bed other than her's, then she might flat out refuse to sleep with me at my accomodation. I'm so confused about her, she never outright tells me no, but instead dances around the answer. I've asked her and she says she does want to see me, but she does nothing to make it happen. She doesn't try to change for me and I'm starting to feel like giving up with her.
Im starting to feel confused about my girlfriend, what should I do without coming across as mean and demanding without repeating myself?
