Do I tolerate too much from my girlfriend?

[mason1s]

I really want to move on from me and this girls bumpy past and i can see that she has genuinely changed. When we started talking for the first time she had had feelings for months prior, she also told my friend she had liked him the day before she told me about how long she had liked me. she had just met for the first time a few days ago. She got with him instead so that’s kinda harsh after liking me for so long. they broke up after she realized she fucked up (he wasn't a great person) she started talking to me again toward the end of their relationship and it ended shortly after so i think she realized her mistake there. We dated for a few months than another bump hit where she broke up with me to figure some shit in her life out, but ended up sleeping with someone else, which was promised that neither of us would do, two days later, then took me back another two days later, i was dumb and was going with the flow, i’m different and learned some lessons now. she didn’t tell me about it till two weeks later after i had already gotten attached. I really love her and she has changed i just don’t know when too much is too much or if i’m doing it as an unhealthy habit trying to hold on.

[Anonymous]

It's understandable that you're feeling conflicted about your relationship with your girlfriend given your past experiences and the challenges you've faced together. It's important to consider whether you are truly happy and fulfilled in the relationship, or if you are staying with her out of habit or fear of being alone.

It's also important to consider whether your girlfriend's behavior is truly changing, or if she is simply telling you what you want to hear. If you have concerns about her honesty or trustworthiness, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with her about your feelings and expectations.

Ultimately, the decision about whether to continue the relationship is up to you. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and to make choices that are in line with your values and goals. If you feel like you are tolerating too much from your girlfriend and that the relationship is not meeting your needs, it may be time to consider moving on and exploring other options. However, if you believe that the relationship is worth continuing and that your girlfriend is truly committed to making positive changes, it may be helpful to work together to address any issues and build a stronger, healthier relationship moving forward.

[Anonymous]

Ik someone in a similar situation, a family member matter of fact for years. You should move on from her if not the same thing is just going to keep on happening.