How would you feel if your girlfriend was texting with a guy at her work everyday?

[iloveviet]

My girlfriend works at the restaurant for few months already, and she keeps texting this guy at work everyday. I talked to her about how it is uncomfortable for me to know that she has been texting to this guy, however, we all end up being mad at each other. I do not want to make my girlfriends feel sad, or feel that I control her life. I don't know what am I suppose to do anymore?

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Please leave me some good advices..Thanks

[HitByTheTruth]

It depends honestly in my opinion.

I mean let's say you and her don't spend that much time together, If the little bit of time you two are together, she is spending that time to talk to that guy then that's just not right.

On the other hand, if you and her spend all day, everyday with each other, and she spends a little time here and there texting a friend at work then I wouldn't stress over it.

Then there is number 3 - If she has a "past" and you think maybe there is more going on then meets the eye I would just be more "alert" ya know and just take it day by day. Might just be friends, or the guy might be trying and hoping for more.

[Masiah]

hey man...u haven't done anything wrong. I think you did the right thing to tell her. But may be when you have tried to tell her about ur comfort level, I think you probably wouldn't be in good mood. You need to talk tp her very calmly. let her be comfortable with you when you discuss that matter again. Make sure that you don't make a mess of it. You can just ask her out on a date and after that (spending some good time), when he would be very happy, you can quitely discuss that matter.

try that.

take care

[Anonymous]

you need to check your girl. if I was texting a guy at work everyday my boyfriend sure would say something to me. if you don't like it then don't stand for it. its not controlling its about getting her to respect u. would she like it if you texted some girl everyday? she can have friends that's normal, but if this guy is the main guys she texts and he stands out above everyone else then that's a problem

[hesaysim2sexy]

my man sees me chatting with the boys at work at night and he gets jealous but we never had a fight about it. because he knows all of em and he knows who has the hots for me. and he is okay with that because he knows I'm with him..and not with them

[XLGirL]

Ask your Girlfriend 'How would you feel if I spent the time that you do texting a chic that I havnt known for long?'

Cos I don't do anything I honestly would not like done to me... and thank goodness my mans the same.

[rabbitfives1995]

well why does it matter if she is texting another guy I mean girls can have guy friends

[iloveviet]

But this guy keep texing my girlfriend, and I mean, everyday, nonstop...

[rabbitfives1995]

Maybe they are good friends

[DanielSan]

Um that would be pretty annoying...

my reaction would range from super p*ssed off to dumping her depending on how bad and annoying it was. Like you have to e able to know if she likes him or is just friends ...im taking yiu don't know him which make it worse...

[jpmenu_3]

Well it might just be a harmless thing...so I suggest you give her a little space...if it continues gently tell her how you feel,jealous,mad etc and don't get mad at whatever she says and accept it like that they might be good friends so id think you should let it go...OR...beat the sh*t outta the guy lmao