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All of us three work together.
We work in a bank... I'm a supervisor and she is a credit expert, he is a "regular" worker. He considers her to be his friend.
Me and him work desk to desk and whenever I have a work related trip and I'm not around, he and this other female coworker are texting. At first I taught it is a work related chat, because his job depends on hers, but then I realized he cannot be texting for hours with her for just work.
I doubt they meet, cause she lives 200 miles away...
Sometimes he barely talks to her especially when I'm with him all day, but when I'm not he stays online and her too for hours.
I'm feeling exhausted already, should I do something about it.
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Is she cute? I don't mean by women’s standards either because women tend to lie to each other about how cute another girl is, especially a friend. So by cute I mean do other men find her attractive, want to fuck her? If the answer is yes then I’d say yes you have a little something to be worried about. Maybe she may not reciprocate his feelings but he’s going to sure as hell try to get something out of her if he’s interested in her sexually. Most men befriend women who are cute, hot, sexy, etc. Even dudes in the friend zone will simp over her in hopes that maybe she will realize I’m a good guy and give me a chance. I don’t think there’s much in the way as far as what women can offer men in a friendship other than sex.
Would not call her cute. She is overweight, average looks. The only thing that I might consider nice is her voice.
So there is that. But maybe that's only my point of view.
Most times men are friends w girls they’d sleep w. There’s a few exceptions. If she’s really cool, easy going, maybe sense of humor like men. But like you said maybe that’s your point of view. I’d have to see her myself. Are you ok w him having female “friends?”
If I could, I would have sent pics.
I have no problem with him having friends, but there must be some boundaries... like for example not hiding interactions.
So he’s actually hid it from you?
Not exactly... but is doing it whenever I'm on a business trip and not in the office
So technically he isn’t hiding it. What if they just get along that they talk about? Nothing more? You said she’s not really all that.
It's natural to feel concerned when you notice your partner is texting someone frequently, especially when you're not around. In this situation, it's important to communicate openly and honestly with your boyfriend. Express your feelings and ask him about the nature of their conversations. It's possible that it could be work-related, but if it's making you uncomfortable, it's important to discuss your concerns and boundaries with him. Trust and communication are key in resolving such issues in a relationship.
He says she is a friend and doesn't want to talk about it... I cannot force him to tell me.
If he's assuring you that she's just a friend and is unwilling to discuss it further, it's essential to respect his boundaries while also considering your feelings. It might be a good idea to trust your partner, especially if there's no concrete evidence of anything inappropriate happening. However, it's essential to maintain open communication and trust in your relationship. If you find that this situation continues to cause distress, you can have a deeper conversation about your feelings and concerns to work towards a resolution that makes you both comfortable.
This is very likely emotional cheating. But when you need to tell a partner how to treat you, I think it's already over...
That's what I fear... emotional cheating.