My boyfriend texts his female friend frequently (daily) and this makes me uncomfortable?

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Okay, so in this era yeah we are all so hooked up on facabook, whatsapp and etc. The point is, I have been dating my boyfriend about 6 months now and everything is perfectly fine. However, in the beginning I did notice that he was close to a few females and one in particular. However I thought it was perfectly normal as we all have friends of the opposite sex.

After knowing him for almost 9 months now... I noticed that he is very close to that one girl in particular ; like they whatsapp each other like everyday, every morning and how do I know this? well every single time we go dating, I see her name flashes on his screen (whatsapp) and I just don't understand why he has to reply her while he is on a date with ME!

I don't get to see him often, and if it was my friend who texted me I would definitely tell my friend I'm out with my boyfriend and i'll get back to her/him later.

His female friend does not know he has a gf (me) because we think it's still early to let everyone know that we are a couple. We want to keep it low for the time being. and this is a decision we both made.

The thing is, he treats me really well and I do know that I am his priority,, but my ex cheated on me and I don't know if it's because of him or what that I feel a little insecure about this.

Is it normal for a guy to text his female friend everyday eventhough he already has a gf? nowadays everytime I think of whatsapping him, i also think if he's msging her, talking to her etc... and I DON'T WANT TO BE LIKE THIS!

Should I be worried about this? Am i being paranoid? i love my guy a lot and I don't want to be one of those dominating annoying girls out there, but this thing is really bothering me!
I really need help :(
My boyfriend texts his female friend frequently (daily) and this makes me uncomfortable?
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