Are single moms losers?

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If you think about it they got knocked and ditched. So there must be something wrong with them. They slept with a guy who obviously wouldn't stay and didn't make him wear a rubber. I can't remember the last time a girl made me wear one, but then again im not a pos. Id stay and help raise my child.

nasarita · Accepted Answer

There's a lot of reason why single mom exist.

1. Failed relationship
2. Death of a husband/fiancée/boyfriend

You can't generalized all single moms are loser and pathetic. There's a pretty good explanation and example of strong, good and smart single woman out there that still survive and can raise her kid by herself.

Most of guys tend to flee or ran away when the situation get rough, just like some woman who left their kid to their husband and ran away with her new partner. You could say that teen single mother are reckless, but not all of it are reckless. Statistically there's 5% single mother are from rape, 60% from failed relationship and 55% death of loved ones. While you can say that 30% of single mother live in poverty and unemployed, but 70% are living the life. You can't just assume all single-mothers are bad based on one-or-five people, there's 49.6% woman in this world out of 7.5 billions people. There's always good and bad example for everything, in this case; J. K. Rowling is a good example of a single mother because she succeed in her life and raising her kids, and the bad example is your abusive single-mother neighbor or the one who treat her kids bad.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Just like to add that not all the guys left them sometimes the females may have left him and he may be the 'loser' out of the two, maybe the guy could have passed away, everyone's circumstance is different You can't assume that there is something wrong with her everyone has different reasons as to why their life is the way it is, give them a chance.

fluffyassunicorn · Accepted Answer

I think single moms are total bad asses! Like they take care of a kid on their own and can still keep a social life going! They at least faced the consequences of their actions which is pretty damn awesome❤️ I've seen many men leave when a child comes into the picture

This_is_my_username · Accepted Answer

Not at all. You can't blame a person for their circumstances. Because you never really know what got them their in the first place. Maybe their husband boyfriend whomever was a abuser. Maybe their assholes. Maybe it didn't work out. You just never know

Streamhopper · Accepted Answer

No, because they can't always control what happens. People make promises all the time and we believe them under the guise of love; but when the rubber meets the road (no pun intended, but it was pretty cool how that worked out) a lot of times one or the other splits. Historically, it's been the guy. So don't be too hard on single moms. Someone has to raise the kids; whether they made a poor choice or not is up for debate, but hounding them about that won't help their situation. Being supportive and understanding will. We all make mistakes in life.

RolandCuthbert · Accepted Answer

We are such a weird society. Do you think you are a loser for being so judgemental?

It always interests me. People who are judgmental, people who are intolerant, people who are xenophobic, etc. The methods they use to justify or normalize their feelings or views.

Strange world we live in.

"Strange Days Indeed", John Lennon

Lexodice · Answer

I wouldn't say they're losers. Plus, not all the time the dad left the mom, but I'll stick to that concept.

It's possible that they both planned on raising the child, but then the father couldn't handle it. If anything the mom is strong for taking care of a child alone.

Máiiréad · Answer

My sister is a single mom because she left a loser.

EvilAngel114 · Answer

Well damn... I don't even have kids and I find this offensive. Can you really call single moms, losers? I'm sure all Scenarios didn't go just as you said. Knocked up and ditched. Some women, that might be the case, but the father could have cheated or not want that child and leave her. The single mother could be a widow. So many reasons. So I wouldn't necessarily call them losers.

gmanhotman · Answer

I wouldn't say loser. buy at the same time for people who don't want kids or arnt good with kids it's a big turn off. and also like me for example I want kids but I'd rather try for my own first then jump into another person's life and mix shit up further.

Anonymous · Answer

"and the fathers are involved" fathers? HOEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

No, I don't consider them losers, the absentee fathers are the losers

OlderAndWiser · Answer

They are not necessarily losers but they were young and dumb and made some bad decisions. Believe it or not, OlderAndWiser was once YoungAndDumb, too!

Anonymous · Answer

No, but I think the guys who ditch are losers though. I don't get why a girl should have to make you wear one unless you want a child?

TheFlak38 · Answer

Of course they are. Most single mothers are single by choice raising another generation of castrated beta males.

bnmcdds · Answer

if you are talking about the baby mamas that slept around and got knocked up, yeah, they are.

Anonymous · Answer

warning! don't piss off a single mom! They go through this Bullshit for a reason! for their kids!

Anonymous · Answer

They are stronger then ever. I give them so much credit!

GARY- · Answer

Yes they are. Make sure you don't get involved with one in any way. You'll thank me later.

NerdInDenial · Answer

They definitely got baggage.

Bleepasaurus_RexEwww · Answer

Wtf my sister is a single mom so stfu!!! 🤛🏼

Anonymous · Answer

no they r not

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