Why did she rudely ignore me, when I approached her?

[Tom199511]

Went out last night with the aim to get 5 numbers - only got 3, but what struck me the most was a flat out rejection along the way which consisted of a girl, simply ignoring me totally not looking me, but instead looking at her friends when I asked for her number - never has a girl been this rude to me 😂 This girl was the best looking of the lot, but clearly her personality didn't match.

I'm thinking I probably came across overly aggressive as I asked for number straight away, but then again I was in a club, and it's impossible to have a conversation in those places.

Anybody got any similar experiences and can shed some light?

Cheers!

[btbc92]

Oh please! I'm glad she saw your game! How do you know her personality because you didn't get a chance to score her in bed? Buddy, you got problems. I commend this girl she is a woman to be respected. And she saw you as a whoremonger. I do the exact same time. You want 5 girls numbers for what? What are your intentions with these women? Why can't you just talk to them and be friends in general? There is no need to get girls numbers. And not everybody who goes to clubs is interested in getting picked up for ONS or friends with benefits, let alone for a dating sexual relationship. I bet you that she is a kind and respectful girl just like I am. But once I sense that about a person, that guy is now my enemy. He has no good intentions. I remember being approached like this a few times throughout my teenage years and I never went to clubs. As a Christian, I don't believe and agree to that secular lifestyle. But I attract guys and unwanted attention sadly.

Look, I'm not trying to disrespect you here. But you need to face facts. Nobody wants to be used for sex. So unless those girls doesn't mind being bedwarmer for the night, other girls have dignity. And giving out your number to complete strangers is not only unwise but not smart. That doesn't make her rude. She's telling you through body language that she is not that kind of girl. Not every girl like myself and I'm sure her as well wants to be approached by looks. Not every girl wants to be lusted after. We want to be respected. Too prude for you? Walk away. Better that she ignored you, than for her curse you out and tell you some not so nice things that could have resulted in a physical fight and you getting kicked out of the club for harassment and getting reported. She wanted to avoid that. It's not her fault you took it the wrong way.

[Tom199511]

Thanks for your detailed response. Although I disagree with some it, it's nice you took the time out to write that much. 👌

[btbc92]

I just want you to understand her POV. I get too much mocking and disrespect from men my whole life because I don't think like them, and see too many girls get hurt because they believed he had good intentions. Again, if you don't have good intentions for getting numbers without building some kind of relationship with them already, they will treat you as you treat them. Treat others how you want to be treated.

[pharm]

you don't go out with aim to get five bitches nose , she's probably seen you walk around the club collecting the number i would do the same thing.

[Anonymous]

she may have seen you getting other girls numbers and that turned her off

[Tom199511]

Nope only her in that club 👍

I'm guessing an ignore must mean she thinks I'm full of it, so she doesn't mind being a bitch 🤔

[Opinion Owner]

not exactly lol sometimes girls just aren't interested 🤷🏻‍♀️

[CameronRichardson]

she's a terrorist and your stalling the attack

[Zumber]

Dating terrorism. I've had a few women like that in my life lol.