Why did she ignores me?

[Anonymous]

There this one girl that is in my class since late August/early September she been seating next to me since the first day and we became pretty much friends. She used to be very talkative enthusiastic flirty and even very touchy with me, she even called me by pet names, and now recently she started to ignores me and I have done nothing to upset her, and she will still talks to everyone else in class except me, so it’s not like she isn’t in the mood for talking. Why she acting like this, is she playing hard to get with me? Despite all of this I still have feelings for her and I know she have some for me aswell…..

[gamothen]

There could be many reasons. But I think you should confront her about it, and if she makes excuses like "No I don't", just ignore her too and see how she reacts. You will see her probably everyday for the next few years so don't let her get in your head and tone down your feelings, because you will suffer everyday of those years. Trust me I have been there.

[slatyb]

Since you never asked her out, she probably decided that either you weren’t interested in her, or just aren’t into women. Or maybe after spending time around you she lost interest. Next time this happens, ask the woman out. You could ask her now, but it may be too late.