Why did she ignore me?

[Anonymous]

3 months ago i texted a girl,”do you wanna hookup sometime?”, and she never answered me, is she scared of dick?

[texascollegegirl]

None of my girlfriends would like that message and neither would I unless we knew you had what we wanted physically. I can take a message like that from somebody I never met if there's some indication he has a really big dick. Maybe the problem for you is she's not scared of your dick. You haven't given any indication why she would think it's special to hook up with you. That's mostly about size and then looks and body, but hard to say. None of my girlfriends would answer a message like that without more info. I might, but I wouldn't be polite unless I knew it was the kind of big dick Black I like. Other girls may have other kinks, too, but basically those are the only guys who routinely get away with messages like that and have it work out where we go to bed with them.

[Asker]

i do have an above average penis

[Asker]

she missed out on this big dick

[texascollegegirl]

But did she know that and is it big on the white big dick scale, the Black big dick scale, or something else?

[Asker]

of course she wouldn't expect me to have a big dick, im 5’7

[Asker]

im 5’7 feet tall

[texascollegegirl]

So you had enough info to answer your own question. Just asking a question like that without having a hook that will cause a yes will lead a girl to ghost you. Like, if she knew you had a truly big dick, then to girls who know to like that, the message wouldn't be off putting. But too many girls don't know to love big dick because they haven't had it yet. If they don't know you have it and don't know they should want it, then they're probably not going to respond well to something like that. So constructively, how do you do two things - let girls know you have a big dick without putting them off, and get them curious if they haven't had one yet so haven't had the chance to be converted. It is unfair how shorter guys with big dicks often are perceived like they couldn't. Like, some of the biggest dick Blacks I ever met were shorter than you and thick and huge as fuck. Key thing is we don't know what we don't know.

[texascollegegirl]

Also you didn't answer on what scale of big dick we are talking. I would take a message like that from a big dick Black, but not from a big dick white, because what is "big" across the races differs. But plenty of girls like "big" dick whites even though they aren't as big as they could get with Blacks. There could be all sorts of reasons she didn't answer but you didn't give one reason why she should have.

[Nikki1989]

[mandyfire98]

He's a troll nikki. The fact he hasn't been banned yet is baffling.

[dreamstar72]

Maybe she trashed the email, because she was looking for a Tom or Harry or anyone but a Dick. You could always ask, but be prepared for a shocking answer. Let it go

[Asker]

haha

[Alexender_Williams]

dude look at your messagewhat are you doing borriwing pen?

[katiesmuff]

I don't know! Maybe she wasn't too thrilled with your grand offer.

[Sunlight4]

Maybe she didn’t receive the message.