My wife wants to sleep with my friend? But same time she doesn't want a divorce?

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someho · Accepted Answer

If you don't agree with it let her know. Maybe take a short break from each other, it could be that y'all got a little tired of each other. Don't have to break up but just spend your time separately.

If she still chooses to do it, you can do the same but if it's too much for you and really hate this idea then you can just leave her and find another girl. She can then spend her time with other guys and realize what she's lost.

Relationship is all about understanding and respect. If a partner knows you don't like something but yet they still choose to do it, they are being disrespectful.

However if you're married i don't see why she would need to sleep with other guys.

When you love someone, the person you love is all you see.

Maybe she's not the right one. Sorry hun. You can do better because you also deserve better.

Better end it earlier than later if it's necessary.

ShaunaM95 · Accepted Answer

Well tell her that's what happens when you sleep with your husbands friends. I'm sure she'll be able to go the rest of her life without sleeping with him seeing as she's already committed to you previously.

GrumpyGoo · Accepted Answer

Tell her strictly that you won't ever tolerate something like that AT ALL. 😠 Either she give divorce or either she stop thinking about sleeping with any other man than you.

Grimfangs · Accepted Answer

There's this thing which women do. It's called cuckolding. That's where you can't have any sex and she can have as much as she wants to. Now you don't want that happening to you.
So, if you're fine with it, have a three way with your friend, or better yet, make it a swap with your friend's wife for a night. Or you could also have a four way with another chick involved. Provided all parties are okay with it, of course.
If none of this seems appealing, talk her out it. Tell her you don't want that. Let her do the rest of the deciding.

GaBQjason · Accepted Answer

seems like she wants an open relationship to have sex with your friend or a possible threesome. try to put the situation in reverse on her and see how she responds. then tell her how you feel about this situation. if you are ok with this then you can have a threesome or do a cockhold scenario. it also have to include your friend's opinion on the matter for this to work after dealing with yourselves.

ABurstOfPizzazz · Answer

Sounds like she wants to have her cake and eat it. xD

Iraqveteran666 · Answer

Let her. But start preparing for divorce. A friend will not sleep with your wife no matter what. If she wants to sleep with other guys it's time to move on.

i_research · Answer

Wth, tell her no. Show her who's the boss. But seriously, tell her it's unacceptable.

ElissaDido · Answer

This world is fucking mad. What about you stop being a cuck and divorce her?

Jake999 · Answer

What the hell! Leave her immediately!! How would she like it if u slept with her friend?

sarath1997 · Answer

actually I would prefer a divorce over it , but some ask for another friend for yours...

Sabinath · Answer

Be like OK fine, let me sleep with your friend then too :). Give her taste of her own medicine

X_Pop · Answer

If it's an open marriage then it shouldn't be a problem. You can ask for swapping anyway.

Anonymous · Answer

Don't see anything positive coming out of this arrangement

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Dang, that's wicked on her part. She need God in her life.

tigotigo · Answer

You can ask her for swapping or foursome, in that way she will also get to feel what it's like to share your partner with somebody.

Anonymous · Answer

Scarlett Johanssons husband also divorced because of that,, it sucks,.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

It doesn't sound like you have much of a marriage.

xeeshaun · Answer

Really weird talk to her

Anonymous · Answer

what is the opinion of ur friend?

Dr_Latex_McPeggin · Answer

WTF... How about a hard no...

Anonymous · Answer

does she mean, threesome?

cupidkisses · Answer

she's crazy

My wife wants to sleep with my friend? But same time she doesn't want a divorce?

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