My girls says she don't sleep with her husband even they live together at one home? Should I trust her?

[angel437]

I have problems with my girlfriend I don't trust her anymore

[hahahmm]

I have often said that in many relationships one person thinks it is serious & the other thinks it is a joke. I've also said that the same person could act totally different with you based on how you behave. Some take the opposite view and think how someone treats you is only about them. I'm not excusing bad behavior, by the way. But these are my observations in life.

I guarantee you that she does not take your relationship seriously. Regardless of whether she is sleeping with her husband or not. And part of why she doesn't is you are acting like it's a workable situation. It's similar to why a guy may be banging a woman who makes that super easy & he just doesn't see her as serious girlfriend material. That's my POV as a guy anyhow.

99% chance she tells her husband you're just a platonic gay friend or doesn't mention you at all. 99% chance she gets butt naked to take showers around her husband. 99% chance he sometimes slides into bed butt naked and climbs all over her. Even if she doesn't want sex with him she's going to have to fake being into it now and then to string him along. So probably not every day... or week. But when you kiss her you could be tasting his juice for sure.

It's also likely that she is FINE AS HELL, right? So other dudes are noticing her, hitting on her & she has no problem cheating on her husband. Some women only want 2 dudes at a time. But others are okay with having 10, 12, 20, 60 dudes. You have zero control over what she is up to.

She DOES have a reason to stay with her husband tho and it is worth a lot more to her than being with you. She could hate his guts but love his money.

[angel437]

u are absolutely right she naked somtimes while on call with me and her husband at home but she hide phone from him

[hahahmm]

I would keep her text messages or some evidence that she was into you... so later on she doesn't try to flip it and claim you were harassing her.

[molonski2]

NO Bro , she is cheating on him , but she's also cheating on you..

I was working it out the other day , I've done around 11 married women , they all gave it up to the husband once in a while , I just fcked them a lot more , thats all , your girl will be doing same.

[diversethought]

The song "Follow Me" from Uncle Kracker just played in my head while reading your reply.

[angel437]

So should I take revenge from her?

[molonski2]

@angel437 Karma mate - No

[angel437]

Why not she destroy my life with lies

[molonski2]

She is married bro , drop it , so you do not harbor ill will.

[hahahmm]

@angel437 "Why not she destroy my life with lies" -- Because some people don't have the backbone to be honest. They always say whatever gets them what they want. They can learn to be different but it takes decade (s) and only because they are out of a situation like you're in now. You're the type of person who doesn't lie often/ever so it's hard to wrap your mind around. Oh, and if I'm you I would just get out as quietly/quickly as possible & not make a bunch of drama about it. Worse case scenario, if she is worried you will rat her out to her husband then she will go to him and make up lies like say you tried to rape her or something. You do NOT want that.

[hahahmm]

@angel437 In other words, leave without accusing her of being a liar or judging her if you can. Or you can roll the dice. Odds are her husband is a wimp but you never know.

[angel437]

Right bro

[angel437]

I am just sad for my self because i was very honest to her and loved her truly but she really did bad to me 💔🥺

[Sirenboobzilla]

So, you're dating a married woman, and you're asking about trust? The fuck?

[angel437]

She don't tell me before that she is married now I can't leave her because I am inlove with her

[hahahmm]

@angel437 Get out now. You have to learn to be able to switch off your feelings... or at least bury them. Go no contact. No touching of any kind. No matter how much she begs you don't get back with her. Otherwise your emotions will control you and for a man that leads to very bad things.

[DishLady]

Your girlfriend is married... I wouldn't trust either of you.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the rocky waters of trust, aren't we? Trust is the very foundation of any relationship, and once it starts to crumble, everything else might feel like it's on shaky ground. When your girlfriend tells you something as significant as not sharing a bed with her husband, it invites a mix of emotions and questions, right? The essence here is communication. Have a heart-to-heart talk with her about your feelings and concerns. Understanding her perspective is key. However, always listen to your gut feeling. If things don't add up or you feel uneasy, it might be a sign to reevaluate what you want out of this relationship. Remember, trust is a two-way street; it requires both parties to work towards rebuilding it. Keep the communication open, be honest with your feelings, and decide what's best for your emotional well-being. Love demands bravery, after all.

[RebelinSteel]

Oh so you don’t trust the girl that is cheating on her husband with you 🤔

I really can’t see why, she sounds so trustworthy.

[angel437]

Her husband isn't a good person

[hahahmm]

@angel437 BRO, all cheaters say their husband is horrible when they want you to trust them. I bet if you were about to meet him her story would change & she'd be backpedaling.

[Anonymous]

What girls?

[angel437]

I mean my girlfriend