I don’t trust her?

[Anonymous]

So my girlfriend has 2 boy best friends, and another girlfriend which they all 4 meet up here and there to speak about life. There is this one guy that I think likes her and she likes him. I kept wanting to meet her friends and she refused and said when they all together I can do so. The other day she offered me to meet all of her friends but there is this one guy that I think likes herand she likes him, they don’t look at each other also send each other TikTok’s and everything. I pulled her closer and he seemed to be uncomfortable with that and went on his phone. I told her this and she told me he is scared of women and stuff like that. I don’t believe that. Once I told her to leave her boy besties if she love me, she said she can’t coz she knows them since young. What do you think I should do?

[DextroShade]

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You are right to trust your instincts here. There will be people trying to shame you for being "insecure", ignore them. This guy friend would constantly be trying to undermine your relationship because he wants your girl for himself. I would just demote her to recreational use only and when she asks why you won't commit just tell her that you don't commit to women who hang out with other guys. That she is on Tiktok is another red flag as well.

[Staximus]

Having a girlfriend is like having a outdoor cat. You can't make them stay, they stay by choice. If she leaves then it wasn't meant to be.

[Asker]

Yeah I let her be, and do whatever she wants

[Avicenna]

Just monitor the situation for now

[Asker]

I’m a bit worried though

[Avicenna]

Justifiably so

[LazerBean]

If you don't like it then dump her