My girlfriend slept with two of her friend's boyfriends in the past. How do I know I can trust her?

[Anonymous]

Am I being judgmental or should I be cautious?

My new girlfriend's ex boyfriend (dated him right before me) is someone that she "stole" off her best friend. I didn't know this until she told me recently. She told me she dated him after he broke up with her friend first, and she couldn't help but like him at the time so they went out. But apparently mutual friends have told me that's not exactly what happened, she slept with the boyfriend while he was dating her friend and when the friend found out, they broke up and my girlfriend started dating him.

Her first ex also, was someone she "stole" off one of her friends. She admitted to me recently.

Should I trust my girlfriend off of these things in the past? I guess it's in the past and she says she didn't want to hurt anyone when she was doing it. What should I think? She's not cheated in any of her past relationships but this helping people cheat information makes me uneasy.

[Anonymous]

She's definitely an infidel, and possibly what is known as a mate poacher; a woman who gets with other women's mates as a form of attack and to exert dominance over them, or spite their current male partner. Definitely not someone worth dealing with if you value your own worth, time and reputation.

I've experienced women openly saying stuff like this before; they usually do it to highlight their availability, but all they're doing is posting their own L red flag... like, jeez I would never have the gall to do something wrong, then admit to it to a stranger as some form of twisted advertisement? She has no honour, loyalty or decency.

The worst thing about this behaviour is it's driven by impulse. No matter what she consciously says or hopes, this is hardwired somewhere in her subconscious.

[Miristheiss]

You don't. You are being a fool.

You NEVER get serious with anyone who has ever cheated before. EVER!!!

You never girlfriend or wife these people up. They are forever a hard no. Use your wisdom, logic and common sense. Why would you girlfriend up such a person?

Insanity.

[ArrowheadSW]

LOL You should see the movie "Shop Girl". There is a lady who thinks she is seducing her friend's rich boyfriend. (Steve Martin). But she got the wrong guy. Hilarious!

[rachel776]

that is a great movie, Steve Martin really knows what he's doing

when you ask for his autograph he gives you a business card that says, "this card proves you have met Steve Martin"

[ArrowheadSW]

@rachel776 That movie was so funny! The part where the kinky lady "moved in" on her co-worker's "rich boyfriend", only to get the wrong guy, was classic! Then he calls her the next day and he was confused why she referred to him as "Ray" when his name was "Jeremy"...

[rachel776]

@ArrowheadSW

brill 🤩

are you at Lake Arrowhead? we have quite a nice a cabin there

[ArrowheadSW]

@rachel776 No I am not there. But I am familiar with that area. Nice place.

[Luckycharms12]

Ya wouldn't trust her

[ChicoFromThe305]

You can't trust her

[jahaims]

You can't lol