Is bad posture in guys a turn off?

[Anonymous]

I slouch a lot out of habit. Is it a turn off? Does it show low confidence? Now I don't slouch like the hunchback of notre dame, but it is noticeable if a person pays attention to my posture. My slouch is like this.

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If it is a turn off to you, then why is it such a turn off? I don't do it because I lack confidence, it's just because I slouch a lot when I use my computer and my muscles have kind of fused in a sense.

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Ok so it's a consensus that it's a turn off. If I fix up my posture will a girl that I like see me in a different way or is it too late because she has already known me as the guy with bad posture?
I'm still going to fix my posture either way, just curious as to if girls that have already seen me will see me differently?

[Jaadabyrd]

Regardless what other girls might say, I don't necessarily find it a turn off. If you are a very sweet person I would like you as you are. I think girls should be this way more. If someone really likes you they should like all your insecurities. But if this bothers you too much, remember you have to be happy with yourself before anyone else will. So if you are extremely unhappy with your posture, fix it, but for yourself.

[Decentguy]

its called a syndrome. i have that too, here you go

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JA3O0NVb-skhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a96ELNFzKOA

im also doing this exercise and it is helping me a lot.

[Asker]

Should I see a chiropractor?

[Decentguy]

hell no

[Decentguy]

just do one of these exercises and you are good to go
dont worry

[Asker]

How long do you think it will take for me to go from bad posture to perfect posture without always thinking about standing up straight?

[Decentguy]

you dont have to stand up by thinking of standing straight
just do these exercises everyday for 10 minutes

[Asker]

So will I be different in 2 months from now when school starts again? And will girls that friendzoned me see me in a different light?

[Decentguy]

yes/

[guy532]

yea you need to start working out to fix your posture

[Asker]

I do work out but I think I work my chest and shoulders too much so they droop because my core and back is weak.

[guy532]

you need to stretch as well, there's a lot of stretching videos for this exact problem, search for them

[Asker]

I always stretch my legs after leg day. Didn't know you were suppose to stretch your upper body as well?

[guy532]

yea you are, your serratus anterior muscle is quite important for posture so make sure you stretch that out as well.

[guy532]

@update can't hurt and it might catch her by surprise and see you in a different light or she might not give a shit, no one knows so just focus on fixing your posture now and worry about the rest later 👍

[Asker]

Though if she doesn't give a shit, then my posture wasn't a problem for her in the first place anyways right?

[es20490446e]

YES! In fact there was a study that spoke about that, and it shown that it was far more important in men than in women.

nandoism.com/.../sexy-man.jpg

[es20490446e]

It's a turn off because it shows physical weakness.

[dionyxes]

it does show low confidence try wearing a tight undershirt and when you walk clench your fists and suck in your gut it helps me a lot

[dionyxes]

it's a turn off because (and I'm saying this entirely honest) it makes you look special Ed or disfigured and people natural/subconsciously​ view it as weakness and there natural behavior is tooned to pity or superiority at the sight of it and women natural look for things in a guy they want for there child and strong posture is one of those things

[Asker]

I guess, but don't a lot of people slouch especially teenagers who think they look badass by doing it?

[dionyxes]

yeah but then they learn they look like dumbasses and pull up there pants and walk like they normally should and the ones that don't usually go on to develop a back problem

[dionyxes]

yeah if you hold your self higher, work on a good smile and maybe hit the gym (it never hurts) people will think miles differently about you

[Dubloons]

It can be, but good posture can really help you look attractive and it's not hard to get. Push ups and pull up do wonders.

[depeche2015]

no i have bad posture too

[Chico_brah]

Women would see that as a huge turn off.

[Bleh-___-]

Yeah kinda, this posture is unattractive

[Rangers]

Yes, it shows that you are not confident

[Mileyislucky]

Yes... it is.

[MiaJay]

Would be to me

[sadgirl2002]

Ya lowkey

[Shahi88]

uhh shit yeah it is

[OlderGuy965]

Yeah