What would your reaction be if your male friend or boyfriend spanked you?

[Daniel3035]

Or attempted to / actually did spank you and i'm not talking about one smack either let's say you were being really silly and he did it. And before you start by saying "oh i'll call the police" "i'll get him done for assault" irrelevant I asked you how you would feel not what you would do. On top of that realistically he wouldn't be arrested it's legal to a certain extent. But anyway how would you feel?

[Anonymous]

It really depends. I'm into spanking so for him to do it and for me to be okay with it I would have to have agreed to it in some way. If I didn't say no or asked to to stop then in my book that would count as me agreeing to it. That being said if I agreed to it I'd probably be turned on. If it was a male friend that did this that everything that I've said above does not apply so I'd probably feel the same way I'd feel if I didn't concent to the spanking, that being angry. If that were to happen don't expect to hear from me for a very long time because of my pride. Although I'm technically submissive in a relationship I'm still very outspoken, opinionated and prideful in my everyday life. But if you're a good friend of boyfriend I'd probably forgive you (in good time)

[Daniel3035]

Why does it anger you though? I get that it's against your wish but if your doing something silly or dangerous and he does it to stop you shouldn't you be slightly hateful but also slightly umm what's the word for it appreciative because he did do it to keep you safe and that does mean he cares.
If my friend was say standing up in a car out the window and she would stop only if I spanked her i'd rather do that then have her fall out and possibly get killed.

[Opinion Owner]

Firstly I'm a safety first type if person, I'm very careful about things like that and it drives people crazy cause I never do anything some people might consider fun but even if I were the adventurous type I'm not a kid and you don't have to spank me to make a point. As parents like to say, use you're words. If you are worried or don't like something that I do or did then tell me and we can talk to me like real adults. And don't give me the whole if he punishes you it's because he cares bs, only parents can say that last time I checked you're not my mom. And I also have a right to be angry if someone decided to spank you @Daniel3035 for some wrong doing that you've done wouldn't you be mad too, of course unless their your mom.

[babykyyyy]

if it was a friend absolutely not, however, if it were a boyfriend it would depend on the context. if he did it in a joking matter, i may laugh at it. but if he was spanking me in public or in private as a punishment, that is not ok. my boyfriend is my boyfriend, not my boss, not my parent. he can't tell me what to do, if i'm doing something he doesn't like, he can tell me and we can talk about it. but if he intentionally hurts me for "misbehaving" that is 100% crossing the line for me

[1Anon]

I love it when my guy does it but if a male friend did it, he'd better run and hide! That'd cross so many personal boundaries. Only one male (now former) best friend has ever done it repeatedly and that was because I was his "girlfriend" who'd come over when he was getting him on by a girl who wouldn't take no for an answer. Once the girl goes, he and I would be back to being best friends.

[bigdaddydoggo2]

horny

[Daniel3035]

Well yh course we would can't deny it would be fun 😂

[rach_adams]

if it was a male friend, i'll see how close we are. if he's my bestfriend, i'd probably let it go (however, if my boyfriend wasn't comfortable with such closeness, ill tell my guy friend not to do that).

if it was my boyfriend, he can spank me anytime. in fact, i always spank my bf's butt playfully in public.

[rassclart]

If it's a boyfriend I wouldn't mind if it's a male friend I'll spank him hard

[Daniel3035]

😂 I like your answer I don't know why but 👍🏻 😂😂

[rassclart]

Lool

[Anonymous]

If it was a male friend I'd be confused and feel gross and not want him to do that.
If it was my boyfriend it would depend. In a sexual context I'd be okay with it as long as it wasn't too hard, but if it was punishment for something I think I'd be uncomfortable but I would just talk to him about it.

[Daniel3035]

Not sort of punishment more for doing song dangerously silly that you shouldn't do like say you stood up out a car window and wouldn't listen until he spanked you?

[Opinion Owner]

If it was my boyfriend I'd let it go and maybe even think it was funny as long as he didn't spank too hard.

If it was a male friend I'd be annoyed

[Anonymous]

If it was my friend, I'd hit him so hard he would never think to spank me again. And if he kept doing it, I would stop hanging out with him because thats creepy.

If it was my boyfriend, only if we were dating a long time and it was to be playful or sexy.

[RJGraveyTrain]

I'd be upset, obviously. I am not a child and wouldn't tolerate being treated as such. I'd break up with him honestly.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Unless, that is, this was some kind of sexual foreplay ^

[Daniel3035]

What if he did it to keep you safe say you were doing something really silly while drunk that could get you killed and it sobered you up? Would you be angry or appreciative?

[RJGraveyTrain]

Angry. Hitting me is not going to help me and I'm not the type to get so drunk to be in that position. Protecting me would be ensuring I was safe, not slapping me and physically hurting me.

Again, I'd break up.

[Daniel3035]

Hmmm interesting 🤔 you see I had a similar thing we were out camping our girl friend went off silly drunk and she reached the edge of a cliff and wanted to jump obviously being too high another friend male grabbed her but she kept wriggling etc so he actually spanked her and she did sober up but the strange thing is initially she was made but afterwards she said "thank you" but now she's back to made most of us are like "Julia wtf he potentially saved your life" but she's not having any of it.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Well slapping someone out of a total daze I can get but that's less about spanking specifically and more about physically breaking someone out of a trance sort of speak. You could get the same effect hitting someone in the face, for example, but I feel physical methods should be absolute last resorts, not go tos. Violence should be your last choice.

[bedroomeyes]

It depends on the friend. If it's a friend I admittedly like, that spanking is going to put me in an intimate mood. If it's a friend I'm not feeling like that, he's getting his ass beat.

[Jules68]

I would feel a little violated to be honest, especially if we were just friends

[Daniel3035]

What do you mean violated? Sort of loss of dignity or?

[misswierdo]

weird. I'd give him a weird look and hope he doesn't try that again. and if he does we might have a problem

[TheMoroccangirl]

if it's the boyfriend he will know there's no way back 😉

if it's a male friend I'd ignore him for days.

[chrismarie5589]

If it was in a sexual way, sure, I'd make him do it again.

BUT, as a means to punish me? Uh no I am not your punching bag, boy bye lol. And I consider myself a really good wife, I would do ANYTHING for him but I will not tolerate abuse.

[chrismarie5589]

Oh and for a friend? That wouldn't be my friend.

[catsandstuff]

I'd be freaked out and hurt/violated. Like that's not cool.

[fauchelevent]

I'd feel pretty indignant.

[Daniel3035]

Good word I need to use that sometime never heard of that before.

[fauchelevent]

I also should oint out I only read the first bit 'male friend'. If it was my boyfriend, as long as we are in private or no one can see it, I'm cool with him touching or spanking my ass, that usually doesn't bother me as long as he's discreet.

[blueblushed]

depends.
close boyfriend: doesn't matter, we were fooling around
new boyfriend: maybe a little uncomfortable, but don't show it/ say anything
close friend: bit uncomfortable, show it
not close friend: uncomfortable, tell him wtf

[Lightnnning]

Only my boyfriend can spank me if it's just a friend I'd be pissed

[Daniel3035]

Why is it a friend can't but a boyfriend can? There's lots of answers to this but i'm looking for the girl answer

[Lightnnning]

Because it's a friend he can't touch me

[Daniel3035]

Why can't a friend but a boyfriend I mean both are male both have the potential to be bf's?

[Lightnnning]

He needs to keep his hands to himself don't play stupid

[laila23]

See with women it's different. We don'tbecome friends with a man cos we see them as a potential love interest we do it If we think they're nice or something So for women its disturbing if a guy friend spanks them, cos u might not be attracted to them. @Daniel3035

[Daniel3035]

Excuse me miss? I'm asking a question not playing stupid

[Daniel3035]

Right now I get ya. No sexual attraction at the least

[Anonymous]

If i didn't have a boyfriend and i would like the guy who spanked me, i wouldn't mind hehe.

[Anonymous]

if it was a boyfriend I'll try to be silly or naughty more

[Anonymous]

Boyfriend it's ok but guy friend not... unless maybe I secretly liked him

[dessyboo]

take my finger nails and just...

[momo770]

Ha, u won't like it.

[blondfrog]

Girls like that

[GayHowellMeme]

Okay.