// This is an indicative picture me and her. I have a college mate of mine who is just jealous of me for reasons unknown. She just picks quarrels with me, abuses me and calls by names like "twiggy", "needle" in front of everyone. She is big, stout, dark lady, almost 10 inches taller to me and way powerful than me. She is a room mate of mine and has made a habit of mocking at my sizes and wants to show her power over me to everyone in the hostel. I fell ashamed to tell this to my warden or parents. How do I deal with her bullying activities?
How do I confront a big, strong girl who bullies and embarrasses me in college?
You made the first mistake, of showing that you're scared of her. Technically what she's doing is illegal and sue-able. so you've got a few options:
1. Fight her 1 on 1, she'll pick on you less in future if you do this.
2. Contact the people who actually enroll the students in the college and try to get her transferred to another class or another college. It will help if you show them any marks or bruises she's give you.
3. Tell your parents, and they'll do step 2 for you.
4. (Highly reccommend) Contact the police and say you've been assaulted on multiple occasions, this can then be taken to court.
5. Save up enough money to pay a number of older and bigger girls on a weekly basis to A: beat her up a couple of times a week. B: They find out where she lives and deal with her on a personal level, by disrupting her family, or personal belongings.
I once picked a tussle with her when she was abusing me and dealt with her 1 on 1, but me being scrawny couldn't do much to resist that monstrous muscular beast. She just cornered me in the room, I tried to push, bang her and what not!! That giant didn't move by an inch. Finally she thwacked my chest and my ribs were paining for days if I took a deep breath. I do not want to go to police and court as I do not want to involve with them during studies. I've applied for room change but she stills stays in the same hostel.
That doesn't mean you should keep on taking her abuses and keep quite. You may be skinny but not weak, give her back and she will learn her lesson. Do not cowardly accept defeat and never give your feelings to her hand. She is just playing monkey games on you when she needs. Thrash her and ask what she wants, never get intimidated that she is stronger than you
It is very easy to say to fight her, but do you know she is a DARK STRONG MONSTER. She is basketball player around 6 feet tall and 110 kg. She has a strong, broad chested body. But I am 10 inches shorter and not even 45 kg, and I don't have a power packed body like hers. Once she gave a punch on my lower ribs which pained me if I took long breath., I gave her few shots but than that arrogant blatantly pulled my head between her legs and suffocated me, I could do nothing much to resist her
This is bullshit!! Are you fighting WWE? Are you wrestlers? You are there to study I suppose. Complain and put her out of hostel and college. Are u enjoying what she is doing? You need not fight her if this is the case. Take some emergency action, probably you are grown-up and independent lady to take that.
I'd tell her to leave me be. If that doesn't work, get aggressive and tell her to fuck off. But then again, she seems like she's looking to get a rise out of you. It's best to either ignore her or get your own place.
Sounds like you should get your own place and if she continues to give you shit after you've moved out, it's time to step up and tell her you're tired of her bullshit and she needs to fuck off.
I have asked her few times why she humiliates in such way? but she is just reluctant about my concern. She says that she hates skinny people as they are unhealthy and anorexic. I think she is envious of me but she mustn't show her power on me
slap the taste out of her mouth and let her know you're not going to put up with that shit when she knows you will stand up to her she'll leave you alone it's only one ass whipping so take it
being huge has it advantage and disadvantage being huge lessen your speed so you can't move fast especially black ladies go learn martial art and believe in your self until you tell her you mean her she will continue to pick on you
she should go and flex that power in the army and not on u. she is just a fool. here in Nigeria we have a special way of dealing with people like her. when we don with her she will be a calmed dog. we don't tolerate that shit here
Embrace her insults. If it doesn't bother you, then you can try switching classes but it seems like you can't avoid her. If she looks like the picture then 😷😷 dont let her get to you
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