Why do you think my girlfriend looks super sad when I leave her place. I'm returning tomorrow omg?

[Cipix_64]

She looks at me with a worried look on her when I'm leaving her place. It breaks my heart. I explained to her that I'm coming the next day to visit. Yet she keeps getting sad, which makes me sad...

[ffsxx]

I get sad when my guy leaves because I want to be with him. I have enjoyed our time and him leaving is disappointing. If course I know he'll be back soon but that doesn't mean I'll be any less lonely now.
Irs a good thing that she's sad about that. You know she wants to be with you

[Cipix_64]

I'm starting to feel trapped. Everything upsets her. I'm getting so many headaches right now.
I can't handle her :(

[ffsxx]

Trapped sucks. Communication is important so let her know that. Also, it's important to realize that it's okay for her to be upset and it's not your job to fix it every time. That's a lot of pressure on you.

[Cipix_64]

I'm the one doing all the thinking. It's like pulling teeth.
She's not outspoken. So I must dig and find the answers.
Really stresses me out.

[Cipix_64]

Do you think she's getting upset in purpose to get attention from me?
I really care and won't stop talking until I solve the issue with her. We spend hours talking

[ffsxx]

I don't really like to share my personal feelings either, even with my family (though I am blunt with other matters). I know it can be difficult when you don't know what in thinking but it's because I feel like I don't want to ruin a perfectly good night or I don't really care to talk about it at all. Sometimes it's okay to not share.

[ffsxx]

As for doing it on purpose that is a possibility. Its hard for me to say since I don't know her.

[Cipix_64]

I'm sad. I hate her for doing this to me.
I wish she was more laid back...

[ffsxx]

That's fair. Make sure you tell her you're sad. She should be doing the same for you that you're doing for her. If not its time to consider how healthy your relationship really is

[blubblubblub]

she enjoys your company and doesn't want you to leave

[Cipix_64]

It hurts me too. She's so cute 😍

[blubblubblub]

that's sweet

[Casey10101]

aww hahaha she fucking loves spending time with you.

[Cipix_64]

I'm pretty calm and chilled. No stress 😎

[Casey10101]

thats fine, so yeah, she's sad because she wants to be with you. its normal. got to give her time to miss you more ha.

[Cipix_64]

Bah I usually don't go out with younger girls.
But this one kept bugging me so I gave her a shot.
Now I'm feeling shitty because of her...

[Casey10101]

say what? you're feeling shitty? why?

[Cipix_64]

Because she went from chilled to uptight. I can't talk to anyone without making her upset.
I feel trapped.
Should I dump her?

[Casey10101]

wait wtf, I was talking to you on another thing... I didn't realise. man... she's crazy!!! she wants you be with you 24/7 and doesn't want you to talk to other people. she must have a messed up ex or what. hmm, this is something, does she treat you like crap anyway when you do what she says?

[Cipix_64]

Nope. I don't let her treat me like crap. I always have my guard up

[Cipix_64]

I leave if she starts insulting me

[Casey10101]

did she have a messed breakup? that could be it.

[Cipix_64]

I'm her first relationship.
Her pregnant sister recently divorced her husband when she caught him cheating with another woman though

[Casey10101]

that could do it then. let her know that you dont feel so happy about not being allowed to talk to others. but respect her decision.

[Cipix_64]

Makes sense. She fears that I'm going to cheat on her just like her sister's husband.

[Casey10101]

yeah, just make sure you show her that you won't, yeah, she'll relax when you do.

[Cipix_64]

Omg. Her sister is so stupid too. God I hate her. How should I handle her sister?

[Casey10101]

fucked if I know, I have no clue. but hope you can figure that out.

[Cipix_64]

That's fine. Thanks all the help bro

[azzntittiz]

She likes being around you dude.

[Cipix_64]

I got things to do top. I told her I'm coming back tomorrow. Omg i feel guilty...

[azzntittiz]

Yeah she needs to understand that but it's great to have someone you don't wanna be away from, hope she doesn't get separation anxiety.
I dated a guy I felt this way about, he went home as he was American and I am Jamaican, I felt so sad, cried and went into deep depression for over a week before I went back to work.
She'll get over it, she just has to understand you can't be around all the time.

[Cipix_64]

I'm struggling with this one. Lots of patience to explain things to her.
She's acting like a child. This is not sexy...

[azzntittiz]

Yeah just talk to her and let her know it's part of a healthy relationship, knowing that each needs their space.