Are gay girls more visual than straight girls?

[Anonymous]

I saw a question today asking girls what exactly it was that turned them on, essentially all the "straight" girls said something along the lines of the way he looks at her, the way he moans, when he calls her pretty etc basically entirely narcissistic things that show his physical and sexual interest in her.
However the bisexual and lesbian girls on the flipside mentioned how they were turned on by women's breasts, legs, figure etc
So basically straight girls are only attracted to the way men are attracted to them and how well they get along and the gay girls were turned on by everything about the female body/ nature.

So are men just that ugly that they only appeal to women through their attraction to them?

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[Cuteusernamehere]

That's pretty interesting. I would say all the things that straight women listed are probably more biggest turn ons in a relationship.
As for just anyone on the street type turn ons, yes straight women look at the physical too! I'm very detail oriented and a people watcher lol For me it's not so much his big arms or six pack I notice most (I do notice and it's a plus) it's the way he carries himself and the way he acts I notice first. Does he keep his head down to the ground a lot (self esteem issues or lack of confidence), can he make and maintain eye contact? All important things that give you the first ques on his character and if touching those hot abs are gonna be worth it 😁

[Yashvardhan_Malik99]

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[Cuteusernamehere]

@Yashvardhan_Malik99 I don't know how lol

[Yashvardhan_Malik99]

Go to my account then see top right side and click middle one

[Yashvardhan_Malik99]

Okay?

[Asker]

I get what your saying but that still wouldn't be classed as visual, the way he carries himself is reflective of his personality and thats what ur attracted to.
Where gay girls and men are turned on just by womens bodies without even any context

[Cuteusernamehere]

@Yashvardhan_Malik99 yes I found it

[Cuteusernamehere]

I see what you mean. I've been married for a long time so other guys physically really don't turn me on anymore. With my husband physically he's a complete turn on but maybe that's because I already know all the non physical things about him so my mind doesn't wander there as it would with someone I didn't know.

[Asker]

Tbh i just think women dont really have an internal sexual attraction to men, their arousal is more based on someone who can protect and desires them and thats it.
Where men just seem to stupidly lust and crave women for just being women

[Cuteusernamehere]

I don't think it's that simple. Obviously being desired is a turn on for anyone. And I'm more then capable of protecting myself, my brothers made sure of that lol I think it's just straight women tend to look for a deeper connection then men at first. We are mostly programmed to think of the long term not just the now.

[Asker]

Still judt kind of a shit feelings all those years it was only really men who felt the way i felt and women didn't experience.
I don't know its shit to think the only thing the gender u lust after lookings for in u is shit that isent even specific to ur gender. They could just as easily date women

[Belorum]

That's an interesting theory lol
Wouldn't call guys ugly, at least not all. Looks are important too, but they just don't matter as much as other things, at least not for me.

[scooogy]

@Belorum so you consider yourself gay?

[Belorum]

Huh? Why?

[scooogy]

because you talked that way. But I seem to have mistaken you then, sorry.

[Belorum]

I have talked gay? How does one talk gay? 😂

[scooogy]

I just thought that the only girls giving opinions on this question were gay girls :D

[Belorum]

XD I just found the topic funny

[scooogy]

Follow me maybe? :)

[Asker]

But its not the man that turns you on is it? Its the way he's turned on and desires u?

[Belorum]

Eh.. nope. I'm not turned on by being desired lol. It turns me on the most to hear a man's moans, but it doesn't matter if I'm the cause of it.

[Asker]

From what I've read its because he's turned on and u subconsciously u associate with it being cause by you.
And ur not turned on by the mans body?

[Belorum]

Well for me it isn't like that. I do really enjoy to hear it in porn either. This and facial expressions are the best things for me about porn. 😊
Sure I am turned on by the body of a man as well, I was talking about that turns me on "the most", it's not like that's would be the only thing.

[Belorum]

And I don't "imagine" myself inside of porn xD would be hard because the category I'm watching most is masturbation. And no, I don't imagine me to he the cause either.

[Casey10101]

probably, we are pretty ugly, dunno for sure though

[Asker]

Idek lol
I personally dont think men are ugly but i guess women dont seem to think so

[Casey10101]

ehh my only reasoning could be because girls know girls, but like the physical differences.
like how guys complement eachother on being ripped

[Asker]

Do u think girls find ripped guys attractive or its just a male impetuated thing?

[Casey10101]

I mean physically they see eachother differently like we do, but they already understand the intrests like moaning or the way they look at her.

[Asker]

I see

[Sugartitty]

As a bi man, no men are hella sexy

[Asker]

I personally agree, it just seems women and society are more into themselves

[Sugartitty]

Depends on the girl. Some are really visual

[Asker]

As a bi guy do u find men or women more attractive physically/ emotionally?

[Sugartitty]

That's hard to say. I'm currently in a relationship with a girl though. It varies so greatly between different guys/girls, I can't say. I have been romantically involved with more girl though, but that's only because there are more straight girls than gay guys in the world

[Asker]

And would u say ur visual in terms of lust and attracion?

[Sugartitty]

At least for lust I am. But I can be attracted to a person without them being a huge turn on from their looks alone