Why are gay men usually more feminine than straight men?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

They aren't. The ones who are just have less reason to hide it since they're already seen as feminine anyway just because they're gay. There are straight men who are also feminine, they just hide it more because they have more social status to lose.

[jahaims]

About half of my friend group is either gay or bi. Not a single male in this group acts feminine

[itsannalee]

Not always, i have 1 gay friend. He is masculine, people think that we are dating, but he is gay.


And i have 1 friend who is feminine, talks like women, walk like women but he is straight.

[Asker]

interesting. usually though, it is the reverse and I am speaking in general. I know some anomalies exist

[IslaTheWitch]

it depends on the person... most gays I know are really masculine... but I also saw those more feminine... it's just a personal preference...

[Iron_Man]

It’s very different and Sissy, not even women are like that Not even close

[Anonymous]

Masculine is attracted to feminine, and feminine is attracted to masculine.

[zombiewoof]

Not all are, some are very masculine

[Asker]

I mean, why is it when a guy is very feminine, he is always gay?

[zombiewoof]

I have worked with feminine guys that were straight, can't judge a book by it's cover