I wasn't "rich" but money wasn't an issue when I was younger. I grew up in a nice area in NYC. I had a decent savings account as a teen but nothing trust fund worthy at all. I hated my family and walked away from it all before I was 18. I was 1 step above homeless and meet a guy that was in just as crappy of a position as me lol I didn't end up a spoiled entitled brat like my family members and for that I am grateful. I no longer worry about money and learned the value of a dollar because I have worked for everything I have. And We've been together ever since ❤️
My boyfriend was not rich when I met him, but I love him. He wasn’t poor, but his economic state was probably average at best. I don’t really care if he has money or not, as long as he loves me and makes an effort to provide enough for himself. I can take care of the rest financially, and don’t mind doing so. He’s got a really good job now and makes good money, so we don’t discuss finances much.
3
0 Reply
Anonymous
(25-29)
+1 y
Uh, duh they can. As a girl from a wealthier area, I can easily tell you the amount of times I've had a huge crush on guys from poor families is unmeasurable. Maybe in terms of getting married/living together there'd be a few ifs, ands, or buts, but for the most part I think that if you really like someone their financial status matters very little.
Rich girls get bored easy, because they have had everything they ever wanted. They'll love a poor guy if he's exciting, because it brings something to her life she never had.
Beware though, she will expect everything she wants to be handed to her. It can cause big problems in the relationship.
If both are comfortable with it and the relationship is not exploitative, then why not? One thing about this world is that you have all sorts of different types of people and circumstances. If a woman has a lot of money, if she chooses she can prioritize things in a man other than his financial stability.
Theoretically in true love it is possible. In practice I have yet to see it. But I was told a few stories from some other gagers of girls, who are upper class loving their man of lower than their own class. I think it's uncommon.
Rich girls can, but they will be into paying always stuff and doing suprises dinners and that kind of stuff and depending on a guy, a guy who is very proud one will maybe like it at first time but then after time it will put him down and break up with a girl, but some guys just dont care and can live on a girl’s behalf
I believe love is possible but it might wear off, she is used to a certain lifestyle & will eventually get bored of his average/poor way of life. Unless she did not enjoy having fancy things then it will only last so long. Sad but true
Yeah, I'm sure they can. I mean Eliza Schuyler and her sister Angelica were both rich and loved Alexander Hamilton. Eliza married him even though he didn't have much money or anything
Money is not an issue for me. How ever I don’t flaunt it more does it show. I do that for several reasons. Don’t wanna be robbed and don’t need some gold digging bitch trying to take it.
1
0 Reply
Anonymous
(25-29)
9 mo
Yeah. So long as she’s a good person yeah. But you shouldn’t want someone for their money and it’s rare
0
0 Reply
Anonymous
(25-29)
+1 y
Thats an interesting question I wondered about as well.
Most Helpful Opinions