Why do I want to talk to him so badly?

[Anonymous]

A guy who I guess is my friend I really want to message him so badly, but I don't feel I should as it looks like I'm needy and clingy and I don't want him to think I'm like that anymore, I've only had him on Snapchat for a week and I haven't messaged him first, but he's messaged me, what do i do cause I wanna talk to him so badly?

[Anonymous]

. Every time I hear a girl say,"But I won't want to initiate contact, because I don't want to look desperate," I want to slap them. Guys do it all the fucking time. All the time. Grow some balls and just hit him up. If you keep saying stupid excuses like you fear rejection or cleanliness, in mundane situations like this, then you'll never get what you want in life.

[Asker]

No I have an actual reason cause a month ago he deleted me off social media for messaging him too much but when he added me back a week ago he's messaged me about 6 times

[GingerGuy]

Talk to him! You women worry WAY to much about "needy and clingy". The only way you're going to appear that way is if you are messaging/calling him constantly! A little bit here and there is necessary!! You have to show interest in him as well. It can't be a one way street or he'll assume you're not interested.

[somethingcooler]

Talk to him and don't be afraid to express interest. Take an interest into what he likes and don't be worried if it doesn't seem like he notices you like him you could hit most guys in the face and they still wouldn't pick up on a hint. Just remember sitting and waiting won't get to anywhere

[Asker]

I've told him I like him so he knows, but he's never done anything about it, I might message him tomorrow but I dunno

[KingLane64]

If you've never messaged him, you won't come across as clingy

[Asker]

I have messaged him before

[KingLane64]

Did he reply?

[Asker]

This is a complicated situation I've messaged him in the past.

[KingLane64]

So he didn't reply?

[Anonymous]

So you can’t message him but he’s allowed to message you? Are you seeing a disconnect here? Just do it.

[Asker]

It's cause a month ago he said I messaged him too much so he deleted me and then when he added me back he messaged me 3 days in a row

[Opinion Owner]

*too* much is the problem there. Just be chill, don’t over do it if that’s how he feels.

[Asker]

Yeah but he could have talked to me about it instead of being a dick

[ImOlderThanYou]

Just small talk. A lot of us love that sht.

[slatyb]

Message him.

[blah20]

Talk to him