Do Pregnancy scares ruin relationships?

[D1991F]

So my girlfriend said she was pregnant and afterwards kinda went distant from me like she didn't want me there for her and the more I tried the more she pushed me away... 2 weeks later Now she says she doesn't feel the same way for me and broke up with me all needs time to her self...

Keep in mind we been dating for months and she said I am keeper and introduce me to her parents and they told her they really liked me and all that b. s. And the moment she's possibly pregnant she cuts me off

Are first real argument was recently when I told her how she ditched me and left me scared shitless and I couldn't appreciate I was gonna be there and support her decisions... Abortion was her first response but I supported that since we're not ready
But so far 4 weeks gone bye and it's negative so she's not present but it ruined are relationship... Do girl recover from this and come back to there boyfriends or is this a wake up call for her to leave me for good? I know only time can tell but I'm hurt

[Scatter_brain]

I agree with your comments about how she handled it. I mean if you think you're ready for sex then you should be ready for everything else that may come along with it. I remember listening to a conversation on the train between two young adults. It was the best advice I had ever heard. Never have sex with someone you don't want a child with.
Perhaps she reacted this way because she thought you were trying to tie her down. Then again, if you don't want to get pregnant, you take precautions you know? Kind of serves as an eye opener for you as well as to what you could possibly be getting into should this relationship go any further.

[hazybae]

can't say for certain because everyone is different. but me personally i can relate in a sorta way- i distanced from my boyfriend only because i was scared and young. honestly a pregnancy scare is so traumatic- at least for me it was. i went into depression and felt like i ruined my life. i was scared and reactive and wanted to push everyone out of my life. the mental toll women get from a scare is real and can sometimes turn into a physical problem.

[thechico79]

It couple be a few things.
But most Times if the female is the one to push away it is very possible that the baby is not yours.

[D1991F]

How to explain the entire situation to a couple of other younger girls around 16 that I'm related to and their first response was she cheated but my mom seems to think she handled the pregnancy scare immaturely

[D1991F]

How to ****. Typo I explained

[D1991F]

But she talk so down to me like we never had a history togeather which why I'm hurt and shocked

[thechico79]

I agree. No matter what the situation is. She reacted very immature. She should have Sat you down and explained what She was feelings. If there are any secrets she would need to bring it. It was unfair of her to not give you the chance to decide what you want to do.