I'm insecure about (as in worry about) my weight, cellulite, having bad breath, acne, right now my serious need of a haircut (or trim :), among other things. Even if things don't affect us, we often worry about them, not to say none of those don't affect me, obviously I'm far from perfect.
Oh jeez, where to start... Well there is the basics like Hips, thighs, butt, boobs, stomach, height, weight, dress size, pants size, noses, chins, arms, and then we go in to the less frequent things which are like: feet, shoe size, hands, etc. Basically anything that you can find unattractive about a person, we think about and obsess about.
It's sad, but to be honest I've probably thought of about each one of those.
It different between guy and girls, because girls don't necessarily focus on looks, we focus more on if the guy has goals and has a future. As men look for signs of fertility, like youthfulness, in a partner.
I'm pretty bothered about my arse pubes, my monobrow, my genital warts, my hairy nips, my wankers tache, how my farts smell, the thread veins on my d*** (soon to be removed boys ;) ) and how my razor breaks every time I attempt to shave my back.
- I was born with Spina Bifida and the only people I know are my parents and sisters and the doctors that have taken care of me. I'm too scared to tell anyone else.
Sometimes I think I'm to skinny and I hate my nose, I'm extremely white and people always point it out, my freckles, I have a space between my legs because I'm built small, I have small lips and boobs, being seen as stupid, being rejected. All I can think of right now.
All women are different to be honest. Some get down to the itty bitty details like nail-beds, wrinkles, freckles, teeth, etc.
But for the most part women are self-conscious about thighs, stomach, boob size, ass size, "will he think I look okay without makeup on?", and things of that natural...
I know I get insecure about the way I smell at a party--I don't want to smell like straight beer or alcohol. I also get worried that after I eat I have something on my face. WEIRD THINGS I know...but insecurities that I think about when I'm out even with girlfriends.
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I don't have insecurities, though I have flaws. I have lots of flaws but I know everyone has some. I know that people who love me will still love me because other things about me outweigh my flaws. if guys see my flaws and hate me, I let them go cause I don't want to be with guys who hate me. I am grateful for what I have and I don't let my flaws become my insecurities.
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I would have to say my personality. I don't really care what people think about my looks anymore. Just my personality. I have this problem were every time I talk in a group, people ignore me. So I usually don't talk at all anymore. I have two sisters who everyone likes, but I'm usually in the background if you know what I mean. That is probably my biggest insecurity.
you should try changing the tone of your voice... It has nothing to do with your personality. look up interpersonal communication how tone of your voice matters...
oh boyyy where to beginn... I come out as a rele confident girl but I do have insecurities tht people dnt knno about... for instacnce, I dnt like my thighs .. I feel fat even tho I am not. nd I dnt like my eyebrows even tho everybody lovesthem, I feel like they are rele thick nd also I hate body hair... I feel like a monkey wen I shave lol oh nd I dnt like my chin because I dnt have a perfect bite...but no one even notices these things.. its jus me
I only worry about giving out my trust to guys, or to anyone rather. It seems that every time I give people my trust, they always end up hurting me. I don't even trust people easily in the first place. Maybe I am just unlucky.
In relationships, mine would almost always be concerned with: "Am I doing my best to love him?" and "What if I did this one little innocent thing I always do and he doesn't like it and dumps me?"
Innocent as in you know, little stupid things I do like...umm...sing at the top of my voice during shower...burping loudly among the people I know (not necessarily close ones)...oh, and making random sound effect noises to accompany whatever it is that I do...
everyone is different, but I know most women have a lot of insecurities. I know I have alot, such as a pimple, my Italian nose, my curly hair, short legs - long torso combo, small boobs and butt etc...i could go on for a while
cellulite, hair...everywhere (most of which we have removed), girls get moustaches -.- , height, boob size, boob shape, eyebrows, monobrow, pimples. freckles, fingernails, think of anything...girls are insecure about them.
My weight is a HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGE insecurity as well as some stretch marks I have.
I have alot, but guys don't like extremely self concious girls who are too shy to do anything, so I usually just suck it up and act like I love myself how I am (which I sort of do)
I have always been so insecure about my nose. A lot of people say it's "adorable" but I think it's way to triangular. I'm very athletic, and obsessed with my weight and how I look. My friends call me a gym junkie and make fun of me because I'm a girl with a six pac, so I'm very insecure about that. My breath, hair, teeth, cloths, etc. Your going to get a lot of the same answers because most girls are insecure about these things: Body, peoples thoughts about them, and facial features.
That my skin isn't perfect, or that my stomach and thighs aren't super sexy and toned. That my teeth aren't white enough. That my hair looks retarded today. Not big enough boobs.
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I'm insecure about (as in worry about) my weight, cellulite, having bad breath, acne, right now my serious need of a haircut (or trim :), among other things. Even if things don't affect us, we often worry about them, not to say none of those don't affect me, obviously I'm far from perfect.
Obviously! I would rather f*** a barn animal than you!
Oh jeez, where to start... Well there is the basics like Hips, thighs, butt, boobs, stomach, height, weight, dress size, pants size, noses, chins, arms, and then we go in to the less frequent things which are like: feet, shoe size, hands, etc. Basically anything that you can find unattractive about a person, we think about and obsess about.
It's sad, but to be honest I've probably thought of about each one of those.
Ok wow I guess girls are worse. I didn't think they were that bad. Half of that stuff is pointless to worry about. Just saying.
It different between guy and girls, because girls don't necessarily focus on looks, we focus more on if the guy has goals and has a future. As men look for signs of fertility, like youthfulness, in a partner.
It may seem pointless but if a girl is heaps unatractive she will have no confidence and no guys would ever give her any attention.
I'm pretty bothered about my arse pubes, my monobrow, my genital warts, my hairy nips, my wankers tache, how my farts smell, the thread veins on my d*** (soon to be removed boys ;) ) and how my razor breaks every time I attempt to shave my back.
- weight
- scars from operations
- I was born with Spina Bifida and the only people I know are my parents and sisters and the doctors that have taken care of me. I'm too scared to tell anyone else.
- not smart enough
- I come off as snobby because I'm too shy
Sometimes I think I'm to skinny and I hate my nose, I'm extremely white and people always point it out, my freckles, I have a space between my legs because I'm built small, I have small lips and boobs, being seen as stupid, being rejected. All I can think of right now.
I hate your nose too, fatty. No, I'm lying(if that's how you spell it), I think your pretty
-weight
-skin
-hair
-smile
-any of our facial features
-how we dress
-money
-family
girls can be insecure with just about everything and anything.. so it takes a lot for us to find people we are 100% comforable with.
Your boobs are nice though. (Y)
Lol well, umm.. thankyou .
If you were skinny you may be attractive, maybe.
All women are different to be honest. Some get down to the itty bitty details like nail-beds, wrinkles, freckles, teeth, etc.
But for the most part women are self-conscious about thighs, stomach, boob size, ass size, "will he think I look okay without makeup on?", and things of that natural...
I know I get insecure about the way I smell at a party--I don't want to smell like straight beer or alcohol. I also get worried that after I eat I have something on my face. WEIRD THINGS I know...but insecurities that I think about when I'm out even with girlfriends.
I don't have insecurities, though I have flaws. I have lots of flaws but I know everyone has some. I know that people who love me will still love me because other things about me outweigh my flaws. if guys see my flaws and hate me, I let them go cause I don't want to be with guys who hate me. I am grateful for what I have and I don't let my flaws become my insecurities.
I would have to say my personality. I don't really care what people think about my looks anymore. Just my personality. I have this problem were every time I talk in a group, people ignore me. So I usually don't talk at all anymore. I have two sisters who everyone likes, but I'm usually in the background if you know what I mean. That is probably my biggest insecurity.
you should try changing the tone of your voice... It has nothing to do with your personality. look up interpersonal communication how tone of your voice matters...
oh boyyy where to beginn... I come out as a rele confident girl but I do have insecurities tht people dnt knno about... for instacnce, I dnt like my thighs .. I feel fat even tho I am not. nd I dnt like my eyebrows even tho everybody lovesthem, I feel like they are rele thick nd also I hate body hair... I feel like a monkey wen I shave lol oh nd I dnt like my chin because I dnt have a perfect bite...but no one even notices these things.. its jus me
I only worry about giving out my trust to guys, or to anyone rather. It seems that every time I give people my trust, they always end up hurting me. I don't even trust people easily in the first place. Maybe I am just unlucky.
In relationships, mine would almost always be concerned with: "Am I doing my best to love him?" and "What if I did this one little innocent thing I always do and he doesn't like it and dumps me?"
:)
what "innocent thing" do you mean?
Innocent as in you know, little stupid things I do like...umm...sing at the top of my voice during shower...burping loudly among the people I know (not necessarily close ones)...oh, and making random sound effect noises to accompany whatever it is that I do...
everyone is different, but I know most women have a lot of insecurities. I know I have alot, such as a pimple, my Italian nose, my curly hair, short legs - long torso combo, small boobs and butt etc...i could go on for a while
cellulite, hair...everywhere (most of which we have removed), girls get moustaches -.- , height, boob size, boob shape, eyebrows, monobrow, pimples. freckles, fingernails, think of anything...girls are insecure about them.
My weight is a HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGE insecurity as well as some stretch marks I have.
Yeah they are
I have alot, but guys don't like extremely self concious girls who are too shy to do anything, so I usually just suck it up and act like I love myself how I am (which I sort of do)
What city are you in california?
I have always been so insecure about my nose. A lot of people say it's "adorable" but I think it's way to triangular. I'm very athletic, and obsessed with my weight and how I look. My friends call me a gym junkie and make fun of me because I'm a girl with a six pac, so I'm very insecure about that. My breath, hair, teeth, cloths, etc. Your going to get a lot of the same answers because most girls are insecure about these things: Body, peoples thoughts about them, and facial features.
A better question would be "what insecurities don't women have".
I think a lot of females are insecure about stomach fat (however little they may have). I've noticed that guys don't seem to realize this.
That my skin isn't perfect, or that my stomach and thighs aren't super sexy and toned. That my teeth aren't white enough. That my hair looks retarded today. Not big enough boobs.