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Id find it funny, wouldn't care... but this I consider normal behaviour of guys I'm close with anyway
Why wouldn’t you mind?
If this situation occurred would you ask the guy friend if they wanted to sit on your lap? Could they sit on your lap without asking?
Would you be able to handle their weight?
Also would it feel different if a close girl-friend was sitting on your lap?
I wouldn’t mind. Yeah, and vise versa. Sometimes I also scootch over and we both kinda sit on one edge of a chair
Why don’t you mind do you have a specific experience of this occurring?
If they do it without asking I'd probably just shove them off. If they asked then maybe.
So if they asked when would you let them? What if they were really nice to you?
Yeah, I'd let them if they asked. It just seems a bit weird, but whatever haha
I dont mind. My cousin used to sit on my lap and he's 17 lol just for fun
why wouldn't you mind?
What situations did your cousin sit on your lap and what do you mean for fun?
If you saw him standing would you ask him he wanted to sit on your lap first?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would you be able to handle their weight?
Is there any difference if a girl friend would sit on your lap, and do they?
Um well he sat on my lap because there was no where else to sit, there is nothing wrong with that, he's like a little brother to me, there's nothing wrong with his weight, yes I can handle it, it's just a lap seat nothing else. And even if a friend sits on my lap I don't mind, like I said it's just a seat. Nothing wrong with that.
It depends on the friend, but generally I dont see a problem with It
wait why wouldn't you mind?
What type of friend would you do this with?
If you saw on of your guy friends standing would you ask them first if they wanted to sit on your lap? Could they sit on your lap without asking you?
Would you find it weird of the guy friend for sitting on your lap? Would you percieve him as gay? Why?
Do your girl-friends sit on your lap, and do you sit on them? Would it be any different to a guy friend sitting on your lap? Is there any difference between the two genders doing it? Whats your opinion on this?
If there's no where to sit, most of my guy friends lile to make stupid jokes and i could honedtly see them doing this. It doesn't make them gay, i wouldn't invite them to, but they would probably do it just so we would laugh about it. Idc if a girl were too either, a see this a seat, as long as they're not making me uncomfortable I dont care.
all of the time, mostly joking though because I'm small, but yeah, I'm cool with it
when you say mostly joking what do you mean? Are there times when they aren't joking? Why don't you mind?
If you saw one of them standing would you ask them to sit on your lap first, could they sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a girl-friend in this situation?
If he’s gay, hell yah, if he’s a really good friend from like preschool, hell yah, if we’ve been friends for awhile hell no
wait so hell yah you would or wouldn't mind, and why for each one?
If he’s gay or I’ve known him forever than I probably know like everything about him and we’ve talked about dicks with each other and we don’t really care, however if I just met him (esp if I like him) I would feel very uncomfortable and literally only be able to think - is that his dick? Or where’s his dick? How is this not turning him on?
wait so what does sitting on someone's lap have to do with talking dicks? Could you not talk about dicks with someone and still let them sit on your lap?
So if the friend was gay or you knew him for a really long time you would allow them to sit on your lap? If you saw them without a seat would you ask them if they wanted to sit on your lap? Could they sit on your lap without asking you?
Would there be a difference if a girl-friend sat on your lap?
You got it!
Well the thing is... if a dude sits on your lap, you’ll probably feel his stuff, and if it close to them and we make dick jokes 24/7 i probably wouldn’t care. However, if it’s someone I was crushing on I would feel sooooo nervous. A girl is totally different. They don’t have pets that stick out. If there weren’t a seat left, I would ask if he wanted to share mine. Also, is this guy someone you’re interested in?
me personally not, since i believe in utility, but most girls probably would find it weird.
when you say utility what do you mean?
basically your lap is a secondary seat.
human femur is strong. it can even hold a sedan.
I wouldn't care at all. I'd just tell him to switch positions if my legs can't take it
Why wouldn’t you mind?
If this situation occurred would you ask the guy friend if they wanted to sit on your lap? Could they sit on your lap without asking?
Would you be able to handle their weight?
Also would it feel different if a close girl-friend was sitting on your lap?
I don't really care. I sit on people all the time. Why does it matter?
Why wouldn’t you mind?
If this situation occurred would you ask the guy friend if they wanted to sit on your lap? Could they sit on your lap without asking?
Would you be able to handle their weight?
Also would it feel different if a close girl-friend was sitting on your lap?
I mean, obviously asking would be nice. And like idc if it's a guy or a girl if there are no seats and you dont want to stand and you aren't like super heavy then go for it