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Well i don't think I would let any guy sit on my lap lol
I get respected in real life so no that never happened and it won´t happen.
I wouldn't care as long as he's not too heavy
If this situation occurred would you ask the guy friend if they wanted to sit on your lap? Could they sit on your lap without asking you?
Also would it feel different if a close girl-friend was sitting on your lap?
And why wouldn’t you care?
We do it the all the time anyways so why is it different if they do it to us. Permission or not I would still allow them to. The same goes for my girl friends.
When you say we do it all the time what do you mean?
Why don't they need permission to sit on your lap and how long would you let them do it for?
Could friends (guy or girl) sit on you if their were chairs left?
Would you see it as sexual or friendly by allowing friends to sit on your lap and why so?
Would you allow your friends to sit on your lap anytime there are no chairs left and why? Can they do it more than once?
Its cute bestfriend thing to do? Ima say yes!
why do you feel like its a cute best friend thing to do?
If the guy friend had no seat and you saw him standing would you ask him if he wanted to sit on your lap first?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would you think he was gay if he sat on your lap?
Does it make a difference if its a guy or girl or is it being a friend that matters? Like have girl-friends sat on your lap before?
Look I’m not going to answer all those questions but I will say this. Everyone has their own comfort zone with their friends. I have my own I think it’s a fun cute bestie thing to do because of my own exp and my own comfort zone.. if your the girlfriend in the situation and your boyfriend did this just tell him you didn’t feel comfortable with it and he should respect that. If he doesn’t dump him.
I don't need anymore he can have it ill sit on the floor
I would knock him off. Bitch, DOES IT LOOK LIKE IMMA SEAT?
No, i wouldn't mind. They're a good friend, whatever.
Would not mind at all
Why wouldn’t you mind?
If this situation occurred would you ask the guy friend if they wanted to sit on your lap? Could they sit on your lap without asking?
Would you be able to handle their weight?
Also would it feel different if a close girl-friend was sitting on your lap?
Happens all the time with boys and girls
It does? Do you have a specific experience of it happening?
If I wasn’t into him than no. He could stand or actually find somewhere to sit.
No hopefully he has a soft tush and not a boney one
I wouldn't mind if he wasn't heavy and crushed me
Why wouldn’t you mind?
If this situation occurred would you ask the guy friend if they wanted to sit on your lap? Could they sit on your lap without asking?
Would you be able to handle their weight?
Also would it feel different if a close girl-friend was sitting on your lap?
He could've sat on the arm of that couch. I’d rather sit in his lap.
It hasn't happened to me, but I wouldn't care :)
Why wouldn’t you mind?
If this situation occurred would you ask the guy friend if they wanted to sit on your lap? Could they sit on your lap without asking?
Would you be able to handle their weight?
Also would it feel different if a close girl-friend was sitting on your lap?
If there were no other seats I'd jokingly say for them to sit on my lap, but they can if they want. And yeah I wouldn't care if they just came over and sat down hahaha. I'm pretty strong, and my legs definitely, so yeah I'd be able to support their weight :) If it was a girl I'd do the same
I'm petite so yeah I would definitely mind. Why not just let the girl sit on you?
Depends... Are you both single?
lets assume that yes.. what would you do then?
No I would not mind then, I would probably prefer it if I secretly liked him and he probably likes you if he sits on you.
would he know that you liked him if you let him sit on your lap or would it come across as him liking you?
Unless you have told him or a friend that might have told him you liked him he probably doesn't know 100% how you feel. He is in to you though..
I see so what might he think then?
That he's comfortable with you & want to be close too you yet h doesn't want to cross any lines so he's trying to be funny while showing he's into you.
I'm not okey with it. I count that as cheating, and I have a boyfriend. I wouldn't like him to be sitting on his friends laps, or viceversa.
That seems weird asf to me
would you mind though? between a close friend it would not be weird? Do you have girl-friends that sit on your lap what would be the difference?
I would mind if anyone other than a very close friend say on my lap.
They’d be heavy and their bones in their ass would stick into my thighs. I’d just prefer if people didn’t.
when girls-friends sit on your lap their bones don't stick?
I’m saying everyone’s do so I’d rather if no one sat on my lap, hence the “I’d just prefer if people didn’t”
It would be really weird because all my guy friends are bigger then me.
Wouldn't mind, but if he gets too personal then that's a no.
I dont mind but usually they suggest the other way around
As long as my boyfriend doesn't mind, yep :)
My closest guy friend used to do that all the time XD
I wouldn't mind but I would probably get up and sit on his lap.
Sure lol. He better not suffocate me though. Guys weight a lot
do friends sit on your lap often (guys or girls)?
Yes when there are no seats
What places will friends sit on your lap? School?
Do your friends sit on you more or do you sit on them more?
If you saw your friend had no where to sit would you ask them if they wanted to sit on your lap Can they sit without asking you?
Family parties. We're not in high school so no need for that. We wouldn't ask each other, we'll just do. I haven't exactly counted the times, too many
so can friends (guy or girl) sit on your lap anytime there are no seats? Why?
So if a guy friend came and sat on your lap without asking you if there were no more seats left, you would be cool with it and why? Would you think anything of it or him, or question why he was doing it? Would you ask him to sit somewhere else or to go sit on someone else?
Do you wrap your arms around your friends when they sit on your lap and why?
Oh god... Idek. I feel like it would just be weird.
If it’s a close guy friend what would be different than if it was a close girl-friend? There both close?
Yeah it's still weird
Ok so let me ask You this,
Have close girl friends ever sat on your lap? Is it weird
Yes and yes
So then why do you let them sit then if you find it weird? I am trying to understand your opinion
It would be mean to tell them to get off, I can endure it for their sakes.
So Your girl-friends sit on your lap without asking you I’m assuming?
Is there a girl that sits on your lap the most?
But it’s just someone looking for a seat what is weird about having a friend on your lap don’t you like being close to your friends?
I kind of lost interest in this convo... I'm just gonna leave
Yeah it's happened to me before i didn't mind.
Wait in what situations has it happened with you? Do you have a specific situation in mind? Have some guys sat on your lap more than once?
Does it feel different if a guy or girl-friend sits on your lap?
It's no biggie unless he's heavy
Why wouldn’t you mind?
If this situation occurred would you ask the guy friend if they wanted to sit on your lap? Could they sit on your lap without asking?
Would you be able to handle their weight?
Also would it feel different if a close girl-friend was sitting on your lap?
If we were really close then he can sit on my lap if there is no other seats but if he is heavy then we switch spots.
Nope I wouldn't mind!! But most of the time when that happens they make me stand up from my seat and they let me sit on their laps
Why wouldn’t you mind?
If this situation occurred would you ask the guy friend if they wanted to sit on your lap? Could they sit on your lap without asking?
Would you be able to handle their weight?
Also would it feel different if a close girl-friend was sitting on your lap?
They couldn't sit on my lap if they didn't ask permission.
And like I said... If I cannot handle their weight, They would make me sit on theirs. And no if a close female friend sits on my lap it won't feel any different
As long as he doesn't fart!!!
So you would not mind why? Lol girls fart too
Nah I'll just give him my seat and I'll be the one to sit on his lap lol
Well it depended on how heavy he was cause I don't wanna get crushed to death