Girls, Girl with a boyfriend keeps throwing mixed signals?

[Anonymous]

There was a girl who is thought was cute but everytime I look she was shy. So I stopped.. then she started looking at me all the time from a distance or in the library. She woukd always listen in.. this went on for weeks but after all I needed more to work with.

One week we was in the library, she was at the printer and obviously made more effort with her appearance. She knew I was on my laptop. She didn't know how to stand, she was nervous then tried to sneak a look at doing darted her eyes back and do Forth like she didn't know to look or not. But I knew it wasn't accidental as she had to look completely behind herself. 5 mins later she saw me chatting to a girl and got quite annoyed as I seen her outside when I returned to my desk. On her phone looking upset and embarrassed.

2 weeks later I approached her and she was nice wished me happy birthday. But couldn't make eye contact always laughed at my jokes. But was really quiet. It got awkward and she was looking me up and down out the corner of her eyes. So I walked off. Then sge seemed unusually loud and happy. And I caught her talking to her friends about me. 2nd approach she was more talkative but quite nervous and kept playing with her hair etc but more confident. Later in the day she was in class and kept looking about 15 times and secretely talking about me again. i approached one last time and had a conversation with her friends and her and gave her several compliments and wished her good luck. At this point I decided I wanted going to ask her out. But she again was talking to her friends about me and staring at me so I stared back. Then left for class. Then everytime sge saw me sge akways looking at me.
But the week after I avoided her and didn't approach like I had. And her friends kept staring at me. Then when I returned books I could feel her looking from her laptop. I faced her direction when talking to my friend and she looked at me with a sad face. And then just continue to study.

Updates

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I found out she actually has a boyfriend but never told me.. so maybe she's not happy with him etc..

I don't get why she not told me or hinted at it. To be honest it's a no no for me and yes I will never give her time of day. But why she looking all sad when I dont approach. Or before I ever introduce myself sge got jealous and nervous. Why she keep staring and not telling me she has a boyfriend so I back off?

[Rant_Glitter]

You shouldn't be interested in a girl in a relationship. But not for the reason you think because if you wanted something with her then she's already acting like a hoe with her current boyfriend she's just gonna do the same to you. Plus she gets jealous easy, sounds like a psychotic mistake to me.

[Asker]

She never told me she had one I found out by myself. . she's had plenty of opportunities to tell me. I avoid her and she keeps staring at me like she is upset. I know what you mean about not going for girls with relationship but I dont understand her

[Rant_Glitter]

That's even worse because she hides her boyfriend. Not someone you want to be around or take very seriously. If I were you I'd just tell her boyfriend lol

[Asker]

I could be so nasty lol. Her boyfriend means nothing to me. It keeps happening to me ! Lol I swear all the girls who want to make things have boy friend lol.

I get what your saying I did start it though so maybe it my fault sge has feelings? .. I keep pushing.. maybe she already is unhappy and I am triggering it.
Lol

[itslifebruh]

Damn, didn’t know guys noticed THAT much about girls. Good job, she likes you. Even though she has a boyfriend, she might be restraining her feelings for you. Pfff she’s failing at it.

[Asker]

I done my research ☺ lol , what does restraining her feelings at me lol. I started avoiding her and her friebds keep staring and she keeps looking at me like she's upset. I worked out sge had a boyfriend by research as I was going to ask her out but now I'm not lol

[itslifebruh]

She’s not worth it. How old are you, like 18?

[itslifebruh]

Don’t worry too much, there’s PLENTY of fish in the sea

[Asker]

I'm 23 haha lol. I know what you mean.

[itslifebruh]

there ya go

[itslifebruh]

You’re at an age where you’re going to meet someone you bond with soon enough