Girl with a boyfriend sending me mixed signals?

[Anonymous]

I've known this girl (26) for a long time but didn't reconnect until recently when we found out we both had similar travel plans. I was going to book a separate room since I knew she had a long term boyfriend. But she invited me to stay in the same hotel room with her for a week, just the two of us (she paid). And we ended up going out for food and drinks every day. Eventually she wanted to go clubbing and we ended up holding hands and grinding together. But nothing really happened. And the next few days we were holding hands while walking around in public and cuddling. I started developing feelings for her and told her but she said she's still in love with the boyfriend. It's been two weeks since the trip and she still texts me good morning and good night every day. What's the deal here?

[molonski2]

There is little doubt something is happening , forget the boyfriend just go for it , as it sounds like that's what you want to happen..

Its a goer --

[Asker]

I did try and told her I had feelings for her but she said she's still in love with the boyfriend and doesn't wanna break up with him. But at the same time she's still texting me non stop so I don't know

[molonski2]

I do..
Mate , she is grinding the fck out of you on a nightclub floor , again forget all that , just go for it , she was enjoying your manhood and getting off at the same time , go hard I say

[Guy13]

She loves your attention but loves someone else. Enough with her taking advantage.

[Asker]

Yea I think this is the most likely scenario, do I just stop talking to her? She's always messaging me trying to hang out

[Anonymous]

I think you have an overactive imagination. There are no mixed signals that I can see from reading this.

[Asker]

So in your eyes it's normal for a girl with a boyfriend to hold hands, grind, and spoon with another man?

[molonski2]

She ground his erect manhood on a night club floor ! Its hardly " nothing to see here " then she texted him 20 times a day , " In for a penny , in for a pound " 100 % she's up for it.

[Anonymous]

Umm... staying in the same hotel room means I want to fuck you. How did nothing happen?

[Asker]

She got hella drunk so I didn't wanna take advantage

[Opinion Owner]

For a whole week?

[Asker]

I mean we were very platonic until the last few days, after clubbing there was only one or two nights left. We just cuddled on the last night, I tried to make some moves but sensed some resistance so I didn't push it

[Iron_Man]

Shame on her for leading you on she’s already taken you should have never started developing feelings for her