Do most girls prefer casual sex or relationships?

[Anonymous]

It seems girls prefer casual sex but maybe I'm wrong. Most girls have multiple one night stands with strangers in between relationships and also many girls cheat in relationships, showing that they don't value relationships. Also, women seem to avoid dating these days and text like 8 guys at one time and be fucking 4 different guys. Girls go out, get drunk, and go home with a stranger a lot. Girls love the thrill and adventure of this, which is why I think girls much prefer casual sex. What do you think?

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SO as of right now 87% of you say girls prefer relationships, then why do the majority of women have tons of casual sex with many different guys? Would they not be looking for a relationship?

[D_Bone_Steak]

I think women want relationships. The reason we see such contradictory behavior is due to a lot of females resorting to the easiest form of getting male attention. Also there's another form of female sexual strategy, where if they can't find one male they can rely on, they'll resort to having as many guys as possible to rely on... The Gold Digger vs. Prostitute scenarios. Either way relationships are formed in order receive resources. Money is no longer accessed or provided solely from men so the resources could be other things... attention for instance.

So yeah a special guy could provide her with all the attention she needs... but if he doesn't, "neglected" will be ruled as a good enough reason to seek attention from elsewhere while some my just prefer the attention of 4 guys at once rather than that of just one.

[BrandiSue]

this is super well worded! I agee. It is the easiest way to get attention and that is why they do it... I mean it sounds a lot better to yourself and to others to say 'I just like sex' vs " i really like the attention I get leading up to the sex'

[Asker]

You see in relationships women neglect men in terms of caring for them and showing them love. Girls prefer chatting up random guys than being in a relationship. Women love the physical aspect of casual sex even more than men, they find it thrilling to have a new dick for them

[D_Bone_Steak]

@BrandiSue Exactly, I love your emphasis on 'the attention they get leading up to sex.' The sex itself is used like a carrot at the end of a string dangled in front of the cartoon donkey with a stick. All too often I see couples get into an argument over that guy she says, "is just a friend" or "he's just a really nice guy." The bf/hubby is often baffled as to how she simply ignores why he's so friendly and nice... attentive I should say. In that way many women can lie to themselves for the attention. The same game get played out on social media as a thirst trap, while trying to 'appear' innocent and saying something mundane about her eye liner, the truth is apparent because she's in her underwear... soaking up the 'likes' by the thirsty bros. lol

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Asker Yes some women are like that and ignore that they’ll get out of their relationship what they put into it. It’s simply easier to ride the cock carousel, and receive lots of shallow attention in bulk. But I think it has more to do with that attention than the sex itself. Flaunting the prospect in front of men gets that shallow, easy to get, attention for a moment. I think the reason there’s such a prevalence of so much attention-whoring in current times has a lot to do with not having any deep relationships at all. Maybe not knowing how to form one that lasts, or how to get attention in ways other than using their sex.

[Asker]

Well many girls go on vacation to look for cock or on girls night outs they hookup with random men. Its for pleasure not attention

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yup, some girls go out and find some strange based on pleasure alone. I've seen them and had sex with them myself when I used to frequent a swinger club. Anecdotally speaking though, from what I've seen the most, I think the majority of them milk the men for attention, during sex as well perhaps. ... and, not all get to the sex at all. They have their nice/friendly guy's following them around, they have their backburner relationships, and other's that are hoping to lock them down because she is flirting after all... none of those guys will ever get her nookie, yet they keep them around or keep them hoping for some reason. I'm saying that reason is the attention.

Some do some don't the attention/sex exchange. Women tend to be focused on the attention part and men on the sex from the start... exceptions to the rule do exist, but I don't think they only do it for the sex the majority of the time.

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[surfsup69]

Your assumption that majority of women are out having one night stands and all this casual sex with guys is clearly flat out wrong. Women want a relationship dude. It is the men who want the casual sex.

[BrandiSue]

I think girls like the connection. when a guy is trying to sleep with her he pays attention once he has her doesn't pay as much attention.
Guys are more likely to cheat for physical attraction/connection
girls are more likely to cheat for an emotional connection
-This isn't saying that girls never just only want sex... everyone is different and this is just a generalization

[Asker]

Many, many women say that the "emotional connection" stereotype is bullshit and that women view sex the same as men. It seems to be true because girls really sleep around. Girls are always having sex, usually with multiple different men.

[Anonymous]

I think it also matters where you're meeting these types of girls. You can't really generalize an entire gender as one thing completely. For me personally I would much rather have a relationship, but a vast majority of people I meet right now are into something casual for now. Plus there's nothing wrong with figuring out things and trying stuff.

[good_after_achoo]

I'm just confused where you got that idea- first don't generalize the entire female population with that stereotype. Tbh all it comes down with, it depends on the person. Some girls might just wanna hook up or some are really into serious relationships first - or maybe they just do both!

[surfsup69]

He got the idea from watching too much porn hub.

[Cato_]

I don't enjoy casual sex that much because it's simply better when you know each other's preferences. It's okay if i know someone well enough and feel comfortable and have some sort of connection. But yeah connection is needed

[Asker]

Most women don't need any connection

[foodtv]

Most do if they don't want to fake enjoying it.

[winterfox10]

For the record; most women aren't hooking up with a ton of dudes. Millennial Sex Culture is the worst joke on the planet. 85% of us are unhappy with our sex lives, and over 55% of us had less than 3 partners across our college years.

[Asker]

Where you pull those bullshit statistics out of?

[winterfox10]

www.forbes.com/.../

[winterfox10]

www.huffingtonpost.com/.../millennials-are-having-less-sex-with-fewer-partners-than-gen-xers_us_57a21030e4b0104052a090f3

[winterfox10]

These accompanied with a UPenn study, the results of which has been repeated many times over

[Asker]

Well girls usually sleep with a lot of guys at college.

[winterfox10]

That was what made the study so fascinating! It turns out that they don't sleep around anywhere near as much as the media would have us believe.

[menina]

Well, most girls on GAG are like me, they prefer relationships. I'm not OK with one night stands.
But to each their own.

[menina]

I don't know about other girls. But I can tell you that I can't be in a relationship, because I'm attracted to guys who are not attracted to me.

[GirlOfApathy25]

I've been a slut but also been I'm some meaningful relationships. I guess it just depends on my mood.

[Bellamyx]

If I sleep with someone, I have intentions of serious commitment personally

[Hurlyburly]

Relationships. I never even kissed a guy I wasn't in relationship with.

[Anonymous]

Most girls will defiantly want a relationship rather then causal. Usually girls starts to want casuals when they're fed up with guys/relationships.

[lilaqua]

Guys are exactly the same, it's the age, you generally don't want to settle down till about 25.

[Jesslin412]

22 and haven’t dated much or had sex. I want a relationship.

[fallenstar789]

I would prefer a relationship. The sex is just part of it

[Logorithim]

I think a majority would prefer a relationship, but not with just anyone.

[Logorithim]

Women mostly prefer relationships, but from what my female friends tell me (which is honest because we don't have to hide anything from each other), they have requirements they expect a guy to meet. If he doesn't meet them, he's not boyfriend material, but they may be willing to have sex with him anyway.

[pleasestopthis]

I can't speak for other women, but I only can have sex with someone I love deeply.

[vballchic92]

It depends. I just got out of a relationship like a month or so ago and I’m not looking for anything serious... just casual/friends with benefits.

[LilPeachRing]

Me personally I've never had casual sex, every person I've had sex with I've been in a relationship with. I think it really depends on what the individual lady prefers.

[SirRexington]

I would like to say relationships but most I've met do not.

[nina2992]

Relationship is always what a girl wants to be loved and appreciated

[itz_kelzey]

Girls rather relationships than casual sex. I don't like casual sex

[Asker]

Why do most women have tons of casual sex then?

[surfsup69]

they dont.

[CarpetDenim]

Casual sex and promiscuity are disgusting to me.

[CarpetDenim]

The majority of women don't have tons of casual sex with many different guys.

[Bliss-taylor]

Forever and always will I only do relationships.

[awanti95]

Girls always think about relationship

[Asker]

Why do girls sleep around so much then?