Why does my female best friend get jealous when I talk to girls?

[Anonymous]

[Fitness-Fanatic]

She either has a crush on you, or she likes all your attention to herself. Either way, it's a sign of insecurity.

It doesn't necessarily mean she has a romantic interest in you. Some girls like a friend's attention all to themselves. Some girls even get jealous when their female friend talks to other female's. They become possessive

[Asker]

Ohh ok

[GinaTina]

I don't know, I used to be like that... but believe that she does rusty because she likes you. Some girls get jealous even though they don't like you

[Asker]

She has a boyfriend which makes it confusing

[GinaTina]

Then yeah, it's not because she likes you

[Asker]

So what is it then

[Asker]

Girls are confusing lol

[GinaTina]

She didn't want anyone taking you away from her

[GinaTina]

But basically yes, girls can be confusing

[Asker]

I kind of want to talk to her about, I’m not sure though

[GinaTina]

Just do it, what harm can it cause?

[Asker]

I think Ill do it lol

[GinaTina]

thanks for MHO!!! i hope it helped... good luck!!!

[Asker]

You’re welcome.
You helped me the most, so you deserved it.

[okayabbie]

She either likes you, or just likes attention and is unhappy about not being your main focus anymore

[Asker]

She probably likes attention since she has a boyfriend

[PinkMichae]

She wants to be the number one b! tch. Unless you think she's got feelings for you.

[Asker]

She has a boyfriend though?

[PinkMichae]

Doesn't mean she hasn't caught feelings.

[Asker]

That’s true. I didn’t think of that

[SirRexington]

She's your best friend for a reason man. She likes you but doesn't want the relationship she has with you to end so she doesn't say anything. But without a doubt she has a thing for you romantically.

She has a boyfriend? She doesn't know what she wants. She should break up with him if she likes you.

[Asker]

Yes, she has a boyfriend. She has told me that he’s “the one”
And honestly she is confusing

[SirRexington]

Yeah I can't stand that. She's young and doesn't know what she wants. Of course he's not "the one". They never are. I wouldn't put much thought into it. Just know she is being immature.

[Asker]

Should I keep being friends with her though?
She says we’re best friends so

[SirRexington]

I don't know man, that's up to you honestly. I'm not there to give you brotherly advice. But from here I would personally try to distance myself a little bit. Not completely but a little bit.

[Asker]

Alright. That sound like a good idea

[Asker]

Update: I distanced myself and she said she was hurt since we’re best friends like uhh
Oof

[SirRexington]

Of course it'll upset her. It's supposed to. It'll get her to realize which one she really wants in her life, you or this other guy.

[Asker]

True.
Well thanks for all the help.

[markscott]

She may just be jealous of your relationship, and wants to keep being your best friend. Or, she could be interested in you in a way that's more than a friend.

[Asker]

She has a boyfriend though?

[markscott]

Who has a bf? Your female best friend? Or the girls you talked with? It it's your best friend, then she probably is just jealous for your friendship relationship. However, it could easily be that some caring beyond a friendship is lurking just under the surface.

[Asker]

My female best friend has a boyfriend

[markscott]

She may still have a silent crush on you. But even if not, she is your best friend, and she wants to keep it that way.

[Asker]

I think I’ll keep her as my best friend then

[poof85]

Moron she is a girl and wants your attention. not giving it to others. she does not want your cock just your attention.😂

[Asker]

Lol oof then man

[Xpiredhelium]

Are you sure its jealousy? If so then she might like you but if its not pure jealousy then she might just think that you can talk to better people

[Asker]

I’m pretty sure it’s jealousy since, this one time I was talking to my friend from school, and my female best friend made a stoic expression and she looked mad in general

[Xpiredhelium]

Does she dislike the other girl?

[Asker]

No not at all, she knows who she is and everything. Her friend is friends with my female best friend so they know each other I’m sure

[Xpiredhelium]

I would say that she might have a crush based on this

[Asker]

She has a boyfriend, which confuses me

[Xpiredhelium]

But that does not stop her from developing feelings for you

[Asker]

That’s true.
I’ve been wanting to be with her but we’re best friends and I think we’re ok how we are currently

[Xpiredhelium]

Unless you're sure I would leave things alone :)

[Asker]

Yeah lol
I think I’ll stay friends with her

[Xpiredhelium]

Coolio :(

[Xpiredhelium]

:)****

[Asker]

She says I’m her best friend and people say friendzone, but honestly idc lol

[homie3112]

Bro, she likes you. She doesn't want you to give your attention to other girls because she wants you to pay attention to you.

[Asker]

She has a boyfriend though? Wouldn’t he just give her attention

[homie3112]

Things can be complicated. Feelings don't just go straight, thet go everywhere in a mess. So, you might be in that tangle.

[Asker]

That’s Crazy lol. I’ll stay friends with her though

[homie3112]

Okay, then don't mention it.

[jayjaymarz1189]

Maybe she has a crush on you or she doesn't want you to replace her.

[Asker]

If she has a boyfriend this still would apply or no?

[jayjaymarz1189]

Well maybe she doesn't have a crush on you but yes that she doesn't want you to replace her.

[Asker]

Oh ok that makes more sense now

[10dsw]

Most likely she has some level of feelings for you.

[Asker]

She has a boyfriend and so it’s weird that she does this

[10dsw]

Normal. Some British study I read a while back showed that ~50% of married women had feelings for male-coworkers. I think the same was said for married men thinking about sex with female co-workers. Over the years you'll notice monogamy really means little

[Asker]

Ohh ok I understand now

[doughnuts]

duh she probably like you

[Asker]

She has a boyfriend though?

[Anonymous]

I honestly have the same problem, so ill tell u how it feels from our point of view, we feel like as soon as u start getting attached to someone else ull leave us hanging and u won't talk to us anymore, we feel like ur gonna share or divide ur live on someone else now and we always try to have you guys just for us, she also may be unsure if u like her enough, (she feels like u dont like her)

[turtl3man]

She wishes she could get the kind of attention you give to other girls

[Asker]

I guess I could give my female friend more attention

[SparklingDoll]

Maybe you aren't paying attention to her. She likes you.

[Asker]

She has a boyfriend right now which is just weird. I admit though, sometimes I talk to my other friends more than her.

[SovietBall]

Oh damn...

Happened to me a trillion times in middle school, lol!

I can share the story if you want

[Asker]

Go ahead

[SovietBall]

In the prom, two girls were flirting with me like crazy and I was so clueless which they mysteriously found cute and attractive...

They, too, had boyfriends apparently, but that's a different story...

Anyway the point is, every time I tried asking one of them out in order to have a meaningful conversation, they just played dumb, but they would still keep on creeping me out through texting me tons of cheesy love letters and that chick flick stuff...

Damn, when I was finally tempted to flirt back through text with one of them, she gave me her full attention, which made the other girl, literally, scold me for cheating on her!

I was like, "Cheating On You? You weren't even giving me any attention when I was trying to initiate a meaningful convo and now you accuse me of cheating on you? Plus, we aren't EVEN dating, so how the hell that happened?"

She didn't know how to respond, so she went to fight with that other girl for alluring "her man" as she would say!

[Asker]

Lmao bro that sounds crazy.
My female friend gets mad when I talk to girls acting as if I’m hers like wtf

[SovietBall]

Sure bro, lol!

[SovietBall]

What made me laugh my ass off was when I knew how intense the war between the two girls was!

I can assure you that a thermonuclear war could've been child's play compared to their war, lol!

And I wasn't even dating any one of them and never considered dating them anyway, so imagine how intense it could've been if I was seriously dating any of them, lol!

[Asker]

The world would’ve blown up lol

[StickStickity13]

She may not be interested in you ROMANTICALLY, but she is afraid she will lose something from you, which is that bond.

[Asker]

We do have a bond which I like, so that’s probably the reason.

[StickStickity13]

Basically other women=competition. Your friend is selfish and she wants to be your #1 girl. Don't let her hold you back. Stick it to her and flirt with other girls.

[Asker]

Oh ok I’ll do that then

[StickStickity13]

Good work brother, don't let another woman hold you back.

[kevonlayson]

Girls generally get jealous of other girls quite easily, for example when I was in a relationship with someone this other girl who rejected me in the past got jealous

[Asker]

In general, girls are confusing lol

[kevonlayson]

Yup I agree. I remember a talk I once had with my friend and I said "one of the many mysteries we will never solve in this Universe is women" loool

[Asker]

Lol true

[Anonymous]

I hate these questions 😂 You alreadyy know the answer

[SovietBall]

Still, he has the right to ask, though...

Admit it!

You girls are really so damn confusing, lol!

[Asker]

Not really lol. Girls are confusing

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly😂 Eitheer she gets disregarded (in her perspective), or she caught feelings. That's ittt

[Asker]

Even when she has a boyfriend?

[Opinion Owner]

A boyfriend, as annoyed as i personally am to hear it, doesn't stop people for catching feelings for others or being jealous of others. Sadly. Too many potential variables as to why she's jealous even though she's got a boyfriend

[Asker]

I didn’t even think that was possible or that it could happen

[Opinion Owner]

It can happen, even though i dislike it.

[Asker]

I doubt that she Likes me though since she says her boyfriend is “the one”

[Opinion Owner]

Jealoudy works in weird ways

[Opinion Owner]

Jealousy ***

[Asker]

Lol true. She says we’re best friends

[kevdoggening]

who cares, ignore it dude

[Asker]

lol yeh I should

[ovoxo_]

Because she wants your attention. Women are like that.

[Asker]

That’s kind of dumb. Especially since she has a boyfriend

[ovoxo_]

Even if she has a boyfriend, she still wants all the attention from other guys on her as well (even if she doesn't like them back). It's an ego thing with them, that's how they are.

[Asker]

Ohh ok

[ovoxo_]

Just don't let it affect you and you'll be fine.

[Nora_Sutherlin]

Because she likes you

[Asker]

Even if she has a boyfriend?

[Nora_Sutherlin]

Yeah..

[Nora_Sutherlin]

Maybe she wants to make you jealous by having a boyfriend

[Asker]

That’s so weird lol

[MeatPuppet]

Because they want your dick.

[Asker]

Lol oh

[Xpiredhelium]

Not always the case

[doper]

maybe she has a crush on u

[Asker]

She has a boyfriend though lol

[doper]

Maybe she likes u more than her boyfriend

[doper]

Or maybe she is not happy being in a relation with her boyfriend

[Asker]

She says her boyfriend is “the one” so I doubt it that she likes me

[Anonymous]

Maybe she likes you as more than a friend?

[Asker]

Possibly. She has a boyfriend though which is weird

[Opinion Owner]

You can still fancy someone even if your dating someone else

[Asker]

I didn't know that lol

[mhmdjoudi]

Maybe she likes you?

[Asker]

She has a boyfriend which confuses me