This girl acts like she likes me one day, another day she acts like she doesn't even want to see me, flaky?

[Anonymous]

When I met her she was friendly and friendly no problem at all.

But then she 'changed' she became cold towards me, although she was acting "shy" she was acting cold and wouldn't even talk to me, even when I was talking to her.

She was acting like that for a long time, like she didn't want to talk to me, although sometimes she would change back and act more humble shy or even approach me.

I don't know she acts strange to be honest.

[lovecraze]

This goes on all the time.. the guy I like acts the same.. Though I don't know, if he likes me back... But still... urrgh! I know its a constant worry.. does he like me, does he like me not?

So I don't know by experience.. but usually in this situation people with experience, say that its because, the girl likes you and is shy, or.. one day you might have caught her looking at you, and then, she would be like, "OMG, I showed I liked him too much today... I should ignore him tomorrow.." AND THEN she sticks to her words, and she acts all cold towards you... usually shy girls behave this way.. or else, sometimes, she might think, he likes someone else, not me.. especially if she sees you flirting with others.. and had hopes on you... like she expected that you like her too.. then she would also become cold...

Hope I helped...:)

[ElmoxLuvsxYew]

i had the same problem with this guy I liked. honestly it sounds like she's into you, but she's shy OR she doesn't want to believe she's into you.

sometimes -also like the guy I was into- when someone likes you theyll avoid you because 1) theyre shy or 2) that's just their personality -thats how they deal with their 'secret' crush.

honestly my crush and I used to be best friends but he distanced himself from me after he realized he was falling for me.like whenever I talked to him he seemed to either ignore me or or leave his answers really short when talking to me. I found out later it was just because he was afraid id find out that he liked me.go figure

[lovecraze]

This should be the best answer.. because its trueeeee!

[Asker]

hmmmm I really don't think it was because he was afraid of finding out that he liked you, that doesn't make any sense. I think that is just a lie, I think to be honest he didn't like you enough and when he found out that you liked him he distanced from you, so you wouldn't get hurt. Or maybe it was because he liked you and the fact that he had no idea what to do or afraid that he might screwed up, distanced you from him

[Anonymous]

girls are like that. its not really a big deal. I mean I know I can be like that around guys I like. most likely she likes you and maybe she is actually nervous and intimidated but wants to hide it by being all cold. girls are often shy but they like to hide their feelings better than guys would. you should try to show you like her, and maybe even talk to her about why she's acting like that. if she likes you shell change

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I have a girl that acts same way like this it makes it very confusing