I don't expect fancy dinners, or whatever but I don't have random meaningless sex either. I need the relationship, the stability, and the trust involved in order to get physical with someone and even partially enjoy it.
Sex is traumatic for me so it's hard to open that up so I certainly don't do it for just any man that asks.
That being said, I don't lead men on or waste their time either. If they ask for sex I tell them the same, no relationship no sex. Normally takes me a month or more to get comfortable enough with a partner to have sex with them so the ones that don't believe me and try to stick it out typically give up long before getting any. Then there are the frequent who attempt to convince me that I've just been with the wrong guys and if I just put out for them right now I'll enjoy it. But that's a negative. I won't enjoy it.
I think it's all because we create stereotypes based on bad experiences (ours and others). For exemple there are men that treat women like meat. "I say so because like that she will have sex with me. I do so, I pay the dinner and meet their expectation in order to f*ck" but those, fortunately, are not all the type of men. I also know women that think exactly like that: "if he doesn't pay for my meal he's certainly poor or rude, he has to be rich so I can live relaxing in the pool, that's life!"
I mean, what problem do you have. It's not right to treat a woman like an object but either a man. Sometimes we don't respect each other... don't give up, there are good women too out there!
It depends. Sometimes a man is expected to provide more in terms of wealth because he is also unconsciously expecting things of her, that he felt was natural to expect in the first place. Like, she should be pretty and proper, behaves ladylike, cooks, obedient, be a virgin etc. If this expectation really doesn't exist, then why are you getting upset wooing a demanding girl? Surely there's tons of nice girls who'd be great company too and not demanding at all, just that they may look more homely and well, "average looking".
Socially women have always been throughout history considered higher value and the protected. Men on the other hand have always been considered expendable and the ones sent in to die in times of crises. It is still that way in these times of extreme feminist female privilege and it will never change biologically. The female is the default sex and considered the survival of the species. Now add onto that, they have privilege in society in the courts, laws, EEO, Title IV, SH, 911 calls, grading, and just acting like an ashl in general without question. How in the f could they not feel like they feel that they have higher value than men? They are way tooooooo rich for my blood or date $.
This is kind of a deluded opinion. The fact of the matter is that most women don't think this way. Most women don't want to reject guys or get hit on etc. Most women are not evil - the scumbags and gold--diggers are the minority.
For example oftentimes a girl won't reach out to a guy over text simply out of shyness - it's not that she's on some high horse. There are however a minority of women that instead use this social construct as an excuse to be lazy and bratty
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For every woman who has an over inflated sense of her own value, which is clearly not all women, there is a man blowing smoke up her ass. I see this as a two way street. If so many men weren't so desperate then so many women wouldn't feel like they are walking on clouds. When it is made clear that women are this huge prize then of course they will feel special, as anyone would in the same circumstances. If you had women throwing themselves at you 24/7 your ego would do well to stay in check.
It's confusing when the comment picture contradicts the question... But none I've seen do. They go in hopeful and get kicked over and over until they stop caring and just want to get something out of it, at that point it isn't about better or worse it's about screwing someone before they can screw you.
@That1tallguy it's all give & take. There was another forum very similar to this one, but more about men & sex after taking a woman out. I like being pampered and spoiled to an extent. Its all in a matter of perspective, self worth and repect. If you expect the best, then don't go for any less. Of you want your woman to treat you like a king, cause you treat her like a queen and she doesn't than clearly she doesn't meet your standards.
I want my boyfriend to spoil me, because I spoil him. It's one of the reasons our relationship works. We bend over backwards for each other. I wouldn't want to date someone who didn't give as much effort as I do.
Because they are bitches with no soul.
And this is why tomboys are better ( in my opinion) because the ones I know and me all don’t give a damn whether he does that stuff or not.
A. Because they want stuff, not love.
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B. Because there are so many desperate boys out there willing to hand over their entire paycheck for a chance to even smell a real woman. Of course there will be people willing to take advantage of them.
You’re referring to high maintenance women. It’s part of their personality. Having a man take them to nice fancy restaurants is playing a part in their life style. Not all women expect to be treated that way.
They can think this all they want, but they’ll be without quality partners in reality.
Those women put value to the wrong things, just stay away from them.
Because some above average high quality guy dated them for the purpose of pumping and dumping them so though they are an average 4-5 they believe they are an 8 or a 9 Because a guy who rates 8 or 9 banged them.
I agree not to spend a lot of money on materialistic things
Cuz they have the power of the hoof that us men praise lol
In a few ways some do granted same goes for some males.
Seeing this more and more recently, and it is unfortunately a growing trend.
They want body and blood
Because we're precious
Every human thinks like this
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