Will my boyfriend get tired of my "Blonde Moments"?

[LowDowngirl19]

OK: I'm a smart girl, I'm at University and I'm pretty good at what I do (Graphic Design.) But aside from that, I can have a lot of blond moments. I know guys can think the occasional blond moment is cute but I personally think I'm like it half the time.

The other day, I got confused with Formula One and Fifa (mainly because I was tired and was half-listening to my boyfriend)

And the day after my boyfriend text me that the bus driver had stopped to take a p*ss (v random I know) I text back saying " Are you serious? Ugh, what a tramp." and my boyfriend text back saying the bus driver had actually stopped to use a toilet. Another classic, dumb moment on my part.

However, I'm worried that my boyfriend will soon tire of me being like this. I don't do it on purpose and as such I've earned the nicknames "Mong" "Freak" and "Gorm," etc but I know he means them in an affectionate way.

I'm not afraid to admit I can be a bit slow, but I'm worried my boyfriend will get tired of it. I'm thinking of talking to him because it's a big deal to me but I don't know how to approach it.

It's just who I am.

Please help me! Am I just worrying about nothing?

[selfishstars]

I don't see anything wrong with talking to him about it. You don't have to make a big deal about it. Just something like, "Hey, I realize that I have a lot of "blonde moments" and I was wondering, does that bother you?" By that, I think you're saying "I realize that I have these moments and I care about how they affect you." Chances are it doesn't bother him---he likes you for who you are, otherwise he wouldn't be with you. BUT, if you are going to ask questions, you have to be prepared for any answer he might give. If he does say it bothers him or he's tiring of it, how will you react? What will you say or do?

If he tires of it, but "It's just who you are", then maybe the two of you aren't compatible.

[rdabby]

By any chance maybe you re A.D.D?

Like myself, I get called slow most of the time but what people don't know is that I am not listening... I do not listen unless its really interesting and am into it...

I get bored and my mind will be somewhere else and Id actually assume that someone said something and comment about it with a joke or come back, then Id get the 'Huh? What look never mind forget it'

its annoying that I got called stupid a lot of times because of the attention thingy, but seriously if my boyfriend would actually mind that about me then maybe I don't need him either!

Its who I am, he has to deal with it.

[Trihill]

if you're worried about your blond moments, then start changing your ways...you don't really need to talk to him about it unless you don't want to change...you might want to ask yourself and talk to him about why he fell in love with you instead...if blond moments don't come up, then you can change or not change for who you want to be...blonde moments do get old with age, btw