I go through the same thing, like almost work for word same thing! Guys sometimes feel they show there love in other ways and think that that should be good enough ( paying for things stuff like that) He still loves you its just your both comfy with each other now he feels comfy with you and figures you know he loves you. I know it sucks when you feel like that spark has faded and you don't know how to get it back. I still have days when I think man, he use to love texting me on his lunch break or he use to rush home and say he missed me all day but not anymore, but the love is still there. I just try to suprise him and re light that spark once in awhile. I will make dinner and dress up all sexy so when he gets home its something new or if he gets me from work I tell him its my treat lets go out for a drink and its something small but he loves it. Maybe talk with him by asking if he feels its different betwen you? ask if he feels like you don't act the same? don't bring it up as hey your being diff or your being wrong... if guys feel like your bashing them they stop listening lol good luck
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My boyfriend does the exact same thing to me. Plus he won't initiate really anything anymore unless i do.
by the way, how long ago was this question? I feel a bit out of date lol
he's probably just comfortable in the relationship and doesn't seem to think he needs to try as hard.
not necessarily, maybe you two have settled in to a comfortable rountine and he no longer feels that constant reassurance is necessary. if it's bothering you though, it's not good enough. make sure you tell him how it's making you feel, without any crying or whining that will annoy him as it has before, and be honest. ask him outright whether he wants to be with you. you'll soon get your answer.
Well it sounds like it.
As long as you don't turn around and tell me that I'm wrong because you forgot to list all the reasons he does still love you.
I mean you present a pretty one-sided look at things here. Based on this, it's not even difficult to answer.
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Take the five love languages quiz. If the love is there but you're having trouble feeling it from each other, its pretty useful.
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