My boyfriend says he's getting tired of me!

[precious83]

Well first, we have be dating for about 5 years on and off, but knew him for 10 years. He is a very sweet guy, its just sometime when he doesn't get what he wants he starts to go crazy. He is diabetic and I try to deal with it by helping him but he doesn't take is medication. He never use to be a breakfast person. Now he wants me to make breakfast every morning but that is not a problem to me I do whatever he wants. There are sometimes I will skip a morning if I am running late to work. He starts to talk about me to his co-workers and they gave him advice to leave me since I'm not cooking breakfast everyday. So he says he is started to get tired of me, but in my mind I know it's not just this petty issue it has to be more than that. What should I do?

[TheUglyOne]

Leave him. Seriously, he's an ungrateful little twit who doesn't deserve you. He's not sweet, it's you who is a sweet woman, and he's taking advantage of you. A sweet guy doesn't get mad when he doesn't get what he wants. A sweet guy reciprocates kindness with kindness. I don't know much about you but what I can tell about you from this question is that you can and will do much better than him.

He says he's tired of you, tell him, okay, walk out, and never come back into his life.

[knowmeyourself]

Well said. :)

[precious83]

I know and it's been so hard for me to make a decision so, I keep giving him more chances. I am only 28 with no children at all. So I know there is a lot of fishes in the sea for me but I feel like I don't want to go through another heart-break. But I think that is chicken of me. But thanks for your feed back

GOD BLESS

[TheUglyOne]

Yes, you are scared, and that's normal. I went through a divorce in my late 30s, as a fat dude, you don't think I was worried about being alone lol? But heck, I found someone again, quickly in fact. Of course dropping a crap load of weight and getting fit probably helped a little, but still, the odds aren't otherwise in my favor.

It's a big leap of faith, but really, is being alone for a bit so much worse than putting up with his crap, babying a man who uses you?

[TheUglyOne]

28 is still young, and really, is this the man you want to mix your DNA with?

Look, the heartbreak will pass, passed every time for me, every time for my friends, guys and girls, who went through them. In fact, after you are free from him, you'll feel so much better, you'll be more attractive.

I just hate seeing kindness wasted on ingrates. Again, you deserve so much better.

[ihatework]

it sounds like it's high time to leave him, he's taking you for granted. it's also pretty lame that he and his friends are talking down on you behind your back like that, hella weak if you ask me.

[precious83]

Thank you, Yea he is a very sensitive type of guy with a lot of insecurities. That is another reasons why its hard for me to keep it moving with him and which topped it he told me he told his co-workers about what I did. First I don't like you talking about our business to another man. I don't even talk to my girlfriends about my problems. I go to GOD about my problems. But I guess everyones it not the same. but thanks for your feedback

God Bless

[Southerngal10]

Um, you need to leave him. He sounds selfish and ungrateful. How dare him complain about you not cooking him food because you have to go to work. A good man would not only cook his own breakfast, but would cook you something every now and then. Girl, don't ever let a man treat you like that. Leave him. His co-workers can start caring for him since they clearly have the answer to everything.

[precious83]

That is exactly how I feel! I just lost my Father last year. So I think this is the main reason why I am so vounerable right now on what moves to take. I feel stuck in my own shoes scared to take the next step because I feel he's all I know and that fact that I am still in grief. But I truly believe where ever my prince charming is I WILL FIND HIM WHENEVER I DO FIND IM. Beacuse God has it all planned out for me, but back to my boyfriend I do think he is ungreatful.. THANKS FOR FEED BACK GOD BLES

[regenderate]

I get like that when a woman and I finish sex if she doesn't fix me a samwich. To think some of them have the gall to come back to bed empty handed after I say "it'd be awesome if you fix me a samwich." They reevaluate their actions of the evening after I hog all the covers because I didn't get my way. The next day I go and tell their coworkers all about it.

[precious83]

OK, I can understand that, a man gets hungry after sex, but with me I make sure he eats 6 times a day and plus work a full-time job and we have a dog. I get up at 4:30am every morning to start our day. But for him to get mad one day without breakfast and then talk about me to his co-workers that I don't know, its like hurting me. But I don't stay mad I keep it moving. It does take 2 to make it work in a relationship but I am not a SUPER WOMAN YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN... GOD BLESS THX FEED BACK

[Dionysos]

Dump his needy ass. If he wants breakfast he can get his butt out of bed and make it. If he's talking you down to his friends, he needs to go.