Girls, Shy girls act hot and cold?

[Anonymous]

One day i get this unwanted amount of glances. The next she completely avoids me. No eye contact or anything?

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Do you do this if you like the guy and why do you do it? I heard it because girls want to see if the guy is still interested without them trying?

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[arabellaxxx]

I do this sometimes and I notice that sometimes my crush does this to me, too. I do this a lot and when I look at him, I want him to look back but he won't. Maybe you're just not noticing it on some days. Sometimes I'm just too shy or annoyed to look at him. Depends

[Asker]

Yea she's like making discreet eye contact when im not looking. Like she literally turns around behind her to talk to her friend right behind her and takes a glance at me and sometimes even stares. Im sitting at her south west while she's my north east. And whenever she turns around to talk to her friend i feel like its an excuse to look at me. She looks at me from the corner of her eyes a lot. She has smiled at me before. She fixes her clothes a lot and sometimes her hair. I noticed her friends barely touch their hair while she does it a lot. Whenevr i look somewhere near her she uses her corner of her eye. Once she stared at me from the corner of her eye and i looked at her and she looked away. She plays with her phone a lot for some reason. Some days she smiles and gives me attention while others she completely acts like i dont exist.

[arabellaxxx]

That is exactly what I do to my crush. Maybe that means she likes you. I turned around to chat with my friend before and I sneaked glances at my crush while doing so. I also smile at my crush sometimes but I do look away once he sees me. I definitely think she likes you because she does exactly what I do to my crush. I don't play with my phone a lot but I fumble with my jacket zipper or backpack string sometimes when he is around. She seems very similar to what I do.. she likes you

[Asker]

Yea like she's constantly looking her bag. I feel this is an excuse to use her peripherals to look at me. This all tarted with one day my friends was joking around and called me handsome in a joke way and she out of all her friends turned around to look. She turned around and stared at me not my friend. I acknowledged her staring and blushed and smiled out of embarrassment and she smiled back. The next day she dyed her hair and she's talking to her friend behind her and she's showing her hair and stuff and she has her body towards me and she's looking at me while she's showing her hair. She turns around to talk to her friend and he's constantly glancing and smiling at me while doing so. Not even at her friend. She always kinda says "oh that's cute" in a loud way so I can hear. They are not talking about me ik for sure. It's like she's trying to get me jelous so I would look at her. I once dropped my paper below my desk (no I did not do it on purpose)

[Asker]

And no one noticed and they all ignored it but she did notice. The bell rang and she picked it up and asked me if it was mine while smiling. I just yes in a shy way and took it and said thank you.

[omgjassy]

Typical shy girl behaviour. She’s insecure that you don’t like her

[Asker]

Its so annoying glances and smiles one day and the next she completwly avoids eye contact

[omgjassy]

I’m sorry

[cupidkisses]

She doesn't know what she wants