Bahahaha, this is so me!
It doesn't sound to me like you've done anything. She could just be sussing out your personality to see if she likes you or if she can let her guard down around you. How did you react to her jokingly telling you off? Were you visibly upset? Did you find it funny? Your reaction to her attempt at humor could very well shape future interactions. If you took it well, she may be willing to joke about other things and open up more. If you didn't, she may be going back to the drawing board to figure out another approach. She'll probably be more reserved until she figures it out as a way not to intentionally hurt your feelings.
When you say she replies bluntly, what exactly do you mean? Does she succinctly answer your questions, but you were hoping for more conversation from her, so it seems blunt? Or does she give curt one-word answers and take a dismissive tone, as if you're disturbing her? In the last case, I would just like to mention that you may have caught her off-guard (i. e. her mind was on other things), so her response may have been more from a place of disorientation than of disturbance, but it's possible she was dismissive also.
What are you hoping to get out of your interactions with her? Do you like her, and you're just baffled by her behavior, or are you concerned that you may have offended her and just want some clarification?
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i've read what you wrote in comments below, and as a shy girl, i could tell you that most probably she likes you! because i reallyy see myself in her and tat's what it is for shy girls , because a shy girl is most of the times insecure and well.. shy so it's hard for her to determine either you like her or not and if you did something or said something or even ignored her for a bit even though it's not on purpose, she could think that you don't like her or whatever even if she used to think that you do. and in general a shy girl won't talk to someone if she feels a little bit that the person isn't that interested in her, she would feel as if she's wasting the person's time or she's disturbing. and in her case i can clearly see that she gets nervous whenever you both interact. and even though you're shy, try to always do the first step because a shy girl and a shy guy, well.. it's complicated so you have to get the courage ;)
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