Do you believe in fate, destiny, serendipity soulmates?

[Anonymous]

Do you believe in fate, destiny, serendipity soulmates?

[scintilla]

Yes, I do. I believe that there is one person out there made for me. That does not mean that the person is perfect, I believe the person will be flawed as everyone is. But we would help each strive to achieve our best selves, inspire each other to reach our full potential and heal our old wounds. To me, that's what a soulmate is: Someone who can see pass my weaknesses and help me overcome them, and also learn to better themselves from my strengths.
I also believe everything in life happens for a reason. Every person, every dilemma, every challenge we faced have led us to where we are and who we are at this moment. Change is constant due to the simple theory of cause and effect. Every little thought we have has led to a butterfly effect that so many of us never seem to be conscious of. What we think, we attract, we become.
Fate, destiny, some people call it god, others call it pseudoscience. Whatever it is I believe everything happens for a reason, we may not see it now but there's always a good reason for everything the universe present to us.
A great book I would reccomend anyone to read is The Secret, it really is eye-opening.

[Anonymous]

I believe Synchronicity happens for a reason, no accidents and no coincidence. If the Universe wants you to be with someone I feel like they will randomly show up weird places you go that’s a sign from the universe that that person should be in your life. We don’t meant people by accident. They are meant to cross our paths for a reason. They are either a blessing or a lesson lol. I guess destiny is the Universe plan for your life and things that happen to you.

[Asker]

true there were 35 coincidences with this girl.. weve been having a huge crush on each other since we met but i was oblivious

[Opinion Owner]

Well know you can make things happen for one another I wish I could relate

[Asker]

well she was chasing me for again right then few weeks later i do something starts smiling uncontrollably gives me all these signs i add her on facebook and she blocks me and was leaving the country in 2 months she was on a working holiday visa our workmate said she's not avoiding me she's going to Canada to find herself?

[TheSirenofKeyWest]

No, and believing in it minimizes the actual work it takes to male a relationship work. There will never be 1 person made "just for you"
Everyone will have flaws

[Asker]

did you believe when you were younger? till what age.

[TheSirenofKeyWest]

Hahaha, yes, I did. I wanted to believe so bad that I did and let horrible things happen to prove that it was real. I'm only half cynical. I do believe that with emotional intelligence, good communication, and the willingness to put in effort you can maintain a pretty happy fucking relationship.

But, to answer your question, i made it to 20 still believing that I'd bump into some guy who would sweep me off my feet.

[Asker]

true because this girl and i have actually had a huge crush on each other and there were 35 coincidences on my side she was actually the same age as you are. So I was just wondering if it was only me falling in love with the idea. I couldnt figure it out people were saying that these two have been in love since they first met but he can't seem to figure it out as i was inexperienced she was playing coy hard to get. But when i did something she smiled uncontrollably gave me heaps of signs and blocks me on facebook she was leaving my country in 2 months she was on a working visa. Then our workmate said she wasn't avoiding me she's going to Canada to find herself...

[TheSirenofKeyWest]

I'm 26 now and i still don't know what I want. People act confusing when they're confused. Not always an easy answer. Sorry, man

[Asker]

true she's 28 now and i think maybe she does want to see what she wants in life and ill be a distraction wanted to setup my life first anyway and guess what started playing when i was reading your comment...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zDo0H8Fm7d0
I really just thought she would not get turned off as she's been crushing over a year and all her friends know me plus what my workmates were saying.

Thanks so much for the help

[HeyMikie]

Absolutely! My best friend is 32 and I am 60. We talk almost every day and can talk about anything. She is sort of my adopted little sister, but that doesn't even come close to describing our friendship. We are non-sexual soulmates.

[Chris7775]

I think it depends on how you were raised growing up

[aialex]

Lol no.

[liveharddieyoung]

Yes definitely

[Honglitha]

Kinda..