Women are more attracted to a man's money than his looks?

[Anonymous]

Hypergamous prostitutes

True

False

[DianaCS]

Thats stupid
For example do you think the guys that date madonna are atracted to her?

Not all girls are like that
All the guys I've dated were poor
Im poor
And i had a guy that had a huge crush on me and he was very rich and i didn't date him because it didn't click
Dont generalise things

[jarofawesome]

I feel like its more of a ratio thing than just money and that's it. Like -assuming their personalities were the same- if he is loaded but a 4 his odds would be about the same as a dirt poor 8+ ?

[Asker]

That is sad

[Asker]

Shows you are very attracted to a man's money.

[jarofawesome]

Its an unconscious would he be able to provide for future offspring thing

[Asker]

Still sad, men want to avoid women like you.

[Anonymous]

Men are shallow and go for looks so who gives a fuck... If a man is with a woman because of her looks, what's wrong with a woman being about her money/future?

[Asker]

One is simply being heterosexual and being attracted to the opposite gender (to gender specific traits), the other is being a prostitute. Money is trade for almost everything and dating for it is saying you are a product that is bought. Might as well date other women if you date for money.

[Fitness-Fanatic]

I don't believe so. The average man doesn't have much money, and most women work themselves these days.

[Asker]

Yeah but some money, and that money is worth more than his looks.

[Fitness-Fanatic]

Only a man with low self-esteem would have a mindset like that

[Asker]

It seems pretty common that women will overlook a guy being ugly, far less common for a women to overlook a guy being broke and jobless.

[Asker]

Even other women in this thread are saying looks and money are about equally important to them.

[Fitness-Fanatic]

Appearance is very important. Everyone takes appearance into consideration. If they didn't, that would mean they'd just date everyone and anyone. And someone who would date anyone and everyone would have zero self-worth

[Asker]

Seems like money is just as important to girls in a man though.

[Fitness-Fanatic]

I think most women wouldn't date a man who was jobless and had zero money, because she'd fear he would leach off her. Men can be leaches as well , not just women. Plus , you can't live on love alone

[Asker]

Hey, you don't see men caring about a woman's money 90% of the time.

[Asker]

It's innate that women care about a man's money.

[Fitness-Fanatic]

I know many many men who wouldn't date a jobless woman who had no money. Most men would call her a goldigger.

[Asker]

Hey you will see a guy finacially providing for a women 20 times over before you see a women finacially providing for a man.

[Fitness-Fanatic]

Men and women care about money. A relationship becomes toxic when couples have financial issues. Relationships rarely work long-term when couples don't have much money to get them by from day-to-day

[Fitness-Fanatic]

I think a lot of men still feel they need to be the breadwinner. Most men wouldn't be content being a house husband. A lot of men i have spoken to over they years have said they would rather be providing for the family then the women

[Fitness-Fanatic]

than**

[Asker]

Men care about their own money. 80% of divorces are filed by women (in the US) the main reason stated being finacial trouble. A lot of these women are from an older generation, they didn't even have jobs and where unhappy with the money their husband brought in.

[Fitness-Fanatic]

yeah, I do think the divorce courts are still very unfair to men. Regarding their assets and children

[Asker]

Your last post would help in my argument more than yours. And most guys I know from my generation do not want to provide for a women, they don't care about her money, but they aren't going to buy her things (that might help slighty in your argument).

[Fitness-Fanatic]

Most couples I know personally both work. They both financially contribute to the relationship and household. Most men want their wife to care for their kids while he's at work. I don't know any man who wants to stay at home and look after the kids while his wife works.

[Asker]

The divorce courts being unfair to men is not the point, it's before the fact that is my point. 80% are filed by women, and the reason most often given is the financial situation. Unless you mean men will be more reluctant to sigh because he is scared the court will screw him over.

[Asker]

*Reluctant to file

[Fitness-Fanatic]

Most relationships do end because of financial issues. And courts are unjust towards men during divorce proceedings. But when all is said and done, money is important to both men and women

[Asker]

And FAR, FAR more important to women (in a partner).

[jay001]

Incel?

[Asker]

Ignorant?

[Asker]

There where a few polls on here where most women said they would pick an ugly rich guy over a handsome broke guy.

[jay001]

I didn't want to say but yes you do come across very ignorant.

[Asker]

Haha. Say what you want but women don't date broke men (at least past 25).

[jay001]

Is that yoir excuse for being a virgin?

[Asker]

I am rich.

[Asker]

I would be a virgin if I where poor

[jay001]

Lol pathetic

[Asker]

You are 16 mate, if you are in your late 20s and are broke, see how many women flock to you.

[JulieXO]

As long as the guy isn't like struggling t buy ramen noodles fr dinner, I don'T care about his money.

[Asker]

And his looks? The question is meant to weigh up there values.

[JulieXO]

Looks matter more than money, but his character is th most important.

[asyouwereekt]

depends if you're a gold digger. I don't really care, money will come eventually, but if he ugly, his face won't change.

[PondyPand]

Ahuh. Got another woman hater over here. Not all girls.

[Asker]

Say what you want but an ugly rich guy gets more girls than a decent looking broke guy.

[PondyPand]

Probably. Some women are gold diggers, I know I'd prefer someone with financial security, but as long as they're putting effort in and have a job, I'm open to them 😂😂

[Asker]

Is that money worth more than his looks though?

[PondyPand]

Meh. Bit of both. Most more attractive guys are asses regardless of income.

[Asker]

See that is the whole question, is his money or looks worth more to you? If it is pretty much equal don't call me a women hater as you are the one saying I am a women hater by suggesting something you admit to.

[Asker]

See even you know it's a sad, negative trait just by reading it, yet even you are saying it is true now.

[PondyPand]

I never said it wasn't. But you assume all are which isn't the truth. Don't tar everyone with the same brush.

[Asker]

But you are one of these women that I described, his looks and money seem to be about equal to you, or the money worth more. Even you know that is deplorable.

[PondyPand]

It's not deplorable. It's equal to me. I want someone to pull their weight in a relationship with me, not rely on me, and I wouldn't rely on them. I prefer slightly less good lookers because they have better personalities. Yes, I'm one of these *ahem, cough, not* "women" that you describe, but not every women on the planet is the same. THATS what I'm getting at.

[Asker]

You called me a women hater for describing you, so how is it not deplorable now?

[PondyPand]

My god dude. Because you think ALL women are the same, and even called them "hypergamous prosititutes". So, equals woman hater. I've stated my reasons and it's not the be all and end all, I'm flexible and whether I date them or not DOES NOT DEPEND on their income or looks. I just stated my experience.

[PondyPand]

Having some standards and wanting someone who can at least look after themselves financially isn't deplorable, it's intelligence.

[Asker]

Being as concerned about money as you are about gender soecific traits is deplorable, and shows a lack of attraction to the innate male form.

[PondyPand]

Again, a woman hater who can't at least admit others have opinions 😂it's not deplorable to have standards for a man to be able to look after themselves. If that's deplorable, then that's fine for me.

[Asker]

If you flat out told a guy "how you look and the money you make are equally important to me" he would dump you, if he had any self respect.

[PondyPand]

They're not equally important to me and they're not even that important to me 😂😂😂 if he had any self respect he'd have a decently paid job anyway, so that would be sorted wouldn't it? 😂😂 I doubt someone would dump me for that. Lack of cuddles maybe, but not for that 😂😂😂

[Asker]

Self respect can be compartmentalized. Trust me if you said it, the guy would break up with you or at least be very upset.

[Asker]

And you said they are about equally important, which one is more important then?

[PondyPand]

Ahuh. Like the points I've stated above, a self respecting guy wouldn't 😂😂😂 I'm done talking to you since you seem delusional. Have fun with your hate about ALL women. 😂 I'm done.

[Asker]

Ok tell that sentence in inverted commas to a guy you are dating and see the result.

[BornFree]

Then explain how I make much more money than my fiance does?

[Asker]

And if he had no money?

[BornFree]

Fine with me, I like being the breadwinner

[Reach500]

You want a woman who only values you for your looks?

[Asker]

No, but I want a women who values my looks far more than my money. This true for 99% of men.

[Reach500]

I don't think money is the biggest factor for women. I mean, stability is important, but you don't have to be rich. Looks matter too, they're just not the most important thing. For me, character and personality are big.

[Asker]

But is his money or his looks more important to you?

[Reach500]

I'd say balance. It's not like I want to take advantage of anyone though.

[Asker]

That is truly sad. Tell a guy that his looks and money are about equal to you in value, and he will dump you if he has any self respect.

[Repa33]

Nah. Thats a gold digger

[Asker]

But is his money or his looks worth more to you?

[Repa33]

Personality

[Asker]

Assuming the personality is the same, we aren't talking about personality.

[Repa33]

What?

[Asker]

Assuming his personality is the same, what is more inportant? His money or his looks?

[Repa33]

Ohhh. Id say looks. I can't be with someone im not attracted to