Guys, Do men find women with a lot of money more attractive?

Question

Does the amount of money a woman has increase your attraction to her and consideration of her for a relationship?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No not at all. For one as a man it never really benefits us. Most women aren’t going to take over as the bread winners. Meaning they’re not going to pay the mortgage, the car payment, insurance, electricity, phone bill, etc. Women still expect a man to make as much as them or more. We’re still looked at to be the provider. A lot of women are raised w the mentality that his money is our money, her moneys her money. Backup money even though she says she’s saving it for them. She’s saving it as backup in case he leaves her or she decides she’s no longer happy so she can leave. Women don’t share their resources the way men do. Some do, but a lot of them don’t. Women tend to see money as freedom. Freedom from a man as far as not needing them. Men look at it more as I have more money I can take care of my family more. I can find me a girl, start a family w her, take care of her. Not all, but a lot of men look at it that way. I don’t now if that’s how were raised or it’s instinctual to be the provider. Most women will never really support a man the way a man would support his girl if she wanted to be a stay at home mom. So no it’s not something that adds to her attraction. Women usually are the ones who look at that, not men.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'll be honest, when I was in my late 20's I had a "fling" with a 47 yr old widow-mom of 2 boys who owned a very successful a audio-video chain in the area. She was smart, successful, and just wanted to have fun. I was kind of her boy toy for a few months...

After our first date I found myself in her 5500 square foot home and one thing led to another and started making out. The first thing I did after I stripped her clothes off was drop to my knees and ate her out right there in the kitchen. It wasn't that she was super-attractive, it was the power and poise that she seemed to have that made me want to please her. I was turned on by her success. Don't kid yourself, it is a turn on for some guys. :)

ManOnFire · Answer

Nope. In fact I usually find them less attractive, because they tend to behave rudely, spoiled, and stuck up. Money doesn't matter like that to me in a woman. If she works and is serious about making a life for herself, I'm all for that. But no wealthy brats for me, please.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Not even a skosh. Make for us a world in which a man who DOES NOT provide for women and children is considered a god. Only then is it worth revisiting this conversation.

Avicenna · Answer

Usually we don't because even if the very wealthy woman is not arrogant, she has a different understanding of life and usually has spending habits that don't align with ours.

JackCarter · Answer

Mon8r8l , don't reply if you are used to blocking and running away

Finchie40 · Answer

Not at all , that’s only something females’ tend to do

Stetson · Answer

Actually I think it's the opposite... rich girls are usually snobs who think their shat don't stank... they usually have no personality and are dumb as a sack of hammers because they spend their lives sitting around all day getting nails done, hair done, make up done, every day all while be pampered by they rich parents. By the time they become a grown woman most don't know how to shop for anything but makeup, they for sure never can cook and they want a man who will pamper them like their rich parents did. They are high maintenance due to this and it's all a big turn off. Give me the poor girl that knows how to survive and knows how to appreciate what really matters in life and actually knows what love is and has a heart. Cause rich girls... well just watch the Kardashians... they all messed up all the time

VanillaSalt · Answer

I live very comfortable on my salary alone. I only want a woman to help with the bills and to stay working. It’s good she works and gives her an understanding what’s out there for when the divorce comes.

Her money is only nice. I care more about can she give me children and if she’s already successful she’s probably in the mid 30s+ and even with IVF it’s incredibly hard to get pregnant and have a safe pregnancy. I care more about looks, fertility, personality, and to an extent age over money. She can work one day a week for all I care as long as she works hard when she’s working.

msc545 · Answer

Maybe. No matter how much money she has. However, she is going to expect you to pay for everything whenever you go out. It doesn't really matter that much except that women with a lot of money usually won't be asking you for money for rent or a mortgage payment or clothes for food or the other necessities of life hopefully.

HawkPerception · Answer

I've never cared for how much money a woman makes. She could be on the streets, but if she's compatible with me and attractive, I would date her hands down. It's only women that tend to care about how much a man makes.

RingOfFire · Answer

I grew up around rich girls. It made me completely uninterested. They were spoiled and entitled. I hate that. It's so unattractive.

When I went off to college at 18 and met girls from different backgrounds, I was only interested in girls who grew up in middle class or even poor homes. I find them so much more interesting and down to earth.

To this day I find wealthy women unattractive and uninteresting.

normalice · Answer

Some men but it's part of our instincts to control and gatekeep so we tend to get antsy and insecure if we are too taken care of.

RebelinSteel · Answer

Nope, for me it’s purely down to the level of emotional attachment, her having a lot or a little of cash just does not come into it.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I don't care about women's money; just so long as she isn't in debt. It makes no difference to me.

handsomelad70 · Answer

Some, but most men aren't enamoured by a woman's money unless AT THE VERY POOREST a millionairess because rich broads aren't generally after poor chaps, even poor handsome ones.

Anonymous · Answer

No. A rich woman might be equally attractive as another woman, but not because she has a lot of money. In fact, being rich can be a negative because women with money tend to have different personalities, values and attitudes toward men, relationships and what is most important in life. Not always, but generally speaking that is true.

Luopio27 · Answer

I wouldn't fuck Oprah!

As far as titles and status goes, I dont care if she is a principal, a professor, engineer, doctor, entreprenuer, singer, actress or anything big.

I dont care if she is a poor nurse, waitress, janitor, farmer, or mcdonalds minimum wage burger flipper.

I am Mr. Shallo piece of shit who only cares about the sexual atraction that for me, unfortunately comes only from the looks!

ticktds · Answer

This is what's weird about modern dating, is that people can't seem to wrap their head around the fact that to a lot of people weakness—in whatever form it may take—is attractive. They think the only way someone could possibly be attractive is if they have some sort of power or ability that you lack.
This is the difference between hypergamy and hypogamy.

on_my_knees · Answer

Yes, it increases her likelihood of disciplining me like a bad, bad boy. Poor girls can't afford leather and don't have the time to build restraining devices. I doubt they even have a dungeon.

Unit1 · Answer

Not if she has made it through sex work. Other than that, it's a nice to have.

McLlovin · Answer

The more money she has usually, not all the time; the more she has in her mind she doesn’t either needs a man or will hold it over the mans head that she makes more then him which in turn makes her unattractive

Skinhead-1979 · Answer

Wealth, success, career mean nothing to me; women who find that important are not for me.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

No I find a woman who is beautiful attractive. It's has nothing to do with her money Oprah is a billionaire but she's not attractive

Serkee · Answer

No. A woman's career means nothing to a man. As long as she isn't just mooching and using him for his money, men don't care how much a woman makes.

Marsup · Answer

Yes, they sound like Sugar Mommy, which they kind of are.

thecosmos · Answer

Her occupation is mor significant than her income to me

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Not really. My profession keeps me in touch with wealthy and rich people. I find their lifestyle not being a match to mine.

Truthatanycost · Answer

As long as she has enough to look after herself, it makes zero difference.

Anonymous · Answer

Only as it often denoted a level of glass or at least an understanding of business

Still-alive · Answer

it's not really about the money its if she can hold a job and take care of herself is the key. I'm sure a lot of women expect the same from us guys too.

Anonymous · Answer

They are going to be more trouble, less cooperative, and with a long list of expectations.  And most women like their man to earn more anyway so they're never going to be happy.

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