no. i don't care as long as he isn't a beggar. he has to have a respectable job. i will have a university education, so ideally, i would like him to as well. however, if i love him, it does not matter. love is love. i'll make enough money for the both of us, and then i'll be buying him cars. honestly though, not all women are gold digging whores. i don't want a man wasting his money on me. it's nice if you buy me a nice gift here and there on my birthday and special occassions, but don't overdo it. you can't buy love. then again, our hollywood couples would beg to differ.
God, from this and your other comment, you sound so well spoken with substance. I really like that. I'm not even joking. I want to come across a woman like you
What do you mean
Dont buy me shit! I see these gifts as means to buy me and control me. I'm not going to be fake and say money doesn't matter. It does but when I am making it. Also, people that are super rich are not very nice and say off the wall shit that will get them slapped.
Off the wall shit?
Referring to the average person as common folk or peasants.
I still want to make money
The answer to the main question is "yes. Hard yes"
But the hypothesis you give isn't correct.
If we'd take 3 parts of an identical triplet. One would be a multimillionaire, one would live an average life, the other would be homeless. For the sake of argument, all 3 of them look more or less identical.
It's rather obvious that Mr. Homeless will be last on the attractiveness-list. He'll have few to no means of existence and can't give any certainty.
Mr. Average will be second.
Mr. Wealth will be first, but mostly because of self-esteem and such
Are you sure just because of self esteem? I just think being financially stable and having abundance is attractive to both men and women
Are wealthy men more attractive to women? YES
Has science proven that to be true over and over again? YES
www.newshub.co.nz/.../...-rich-men-scientists.html
www.sciencedirect.com/.../S109051381730315X
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The ONLY thing that truly attracts a person to a person is a KIND HEART. If you are rich you may not treat well a person and the same applies if you are poor, but if you are KIND it doesn't matter if you are rich or poor.
It's the same as asking "is a hot-looking woman what only attracts a man?" - which is no, because if she's hot but treats you like total sh*t you ain't gonna be with her right.
There is more than money and a good-looking body needed to have a true relationship that doesn't bore you to death.
Nailed it!
Of course they are. lol @ all the women saying "no"
www.newshub.co.nz/.../...-rich-men-scientists.html
The researchers concluded that women are significantly more sensitive to salary information when considering a partner compared to men.
"A man can move himself two points higher on the attractiveness scale we used if his salary increases by a factor of 10,"
No for me, when I was in my early 20s I dated a millionaire, we went nice places, did nice things more or less had whatever I wanted but the more I got the know him the less I liked him as a person so that ended things. Doesn't matter how much money he had he was a knob!
No. Rich guys tend to be snobs and think they own women just because they have money because they believe all women are gold diggers.
Then when they encounter women like myself who actually care about their personality and how they treat us, they don't know what to do with themselves and get offended that we aren't impressed by their money.
Yup. That sense of entitlement is repulsive.
You only have to see the number of movies that feature poor, average-looking women falling for attractive, wealthy men to come to a conclusion. Why do you rarely see the reverse? Well, there's a reason why women have that fantasy and why it appears repeatedly in all media, from romance books, to movies, to fan-fiction.
Of course he is attractive, but that doesn't make him the "dream man". Its like being hot, yeah it gives points but its not THE ONLY thing that we care about
Still I'm thinking of getting a personal trainer. The outside is important
For sure! Its the outside makes us want to get to know the inside or not. But it ia not the only thing that matters
Do you think I should get a nose job?
How would i know? Haha
No. Tbh I’d avoid him as I’d want someone on my level who I could genuinely relate to, not someone who thought they could exploit me because they were rich. They can stick to the gold diggers thanks. Like attracts like and all that.
There’s a big difference between being financially sensible and being rich. Most people are financially sensible where I’m from, most aren’t rich however. I 100% prefer the financially sensible person because I perceive the rich person to lack basic values that are important in a relationship.
Sadly indeed, girls tend to fall for materials things at first before looking to understand the person.
That's why I'm going to be wealthy
No they aren't wealthy men usually are intelligent and charming unless they got it from their dad those quality are very attractive but being wealthy? Talking about men who got it from their dad
No, I mean men who made wealth through their own skill or just on their own like through investing or a business idea
Well they usually are intelligent and charming that's very attractive but wealth is not men who got it from dad don't usually have charm and intelligence so they are not attractive.
But I wouldn't get it from dad, I would make it my own way. By the way what do you mean by charming?
Google it
No just tell me how you think of it
I don't care about money. So, to answer your question, no.
What do you care about?
I care about how a guy treats me and what type of personality he has.
People who are violent, alcoholics, consistent swearing, people who force their opinions on others, I have a preference of just wanting white men or mixed but that's it. Look wise I'm not fussy.
Don't think so
What if he was decent looking?
Still no
Are there any physical appearance things you can think of that would be deal breakers?
I'd like to stay open to physical aspects of people. I guess I just prefer white me so others I won't feel much attention to. Someone that has feminine features is a deal-breaker. Not sure what else to be honest. I mean I wouldn't want to date someone that obese because I don't want to support someone that doesn't want to change for a healthier lifestyle.
What do you mean feminine features? Tell
But what do you mean by feminine features? Like big lips or something
@AJC997 Like a narrow face shape, high cheek bones and so on. Just a man having women facial features.
I don think women with manly features is attractive.
@SarahVanRensburg
How are high cheekbones feminine? Wtf. I have cheekbones that stand out, it just makes anyone look more attractive. As for narrow face, I don't know what you mean. Also a girl having a strong jaw is attractive to me, so it's not true.
You asked me and I told you🤗 no need to get offended
I'm quite satisfied with myself. I have nothing major to complain about. I do have a few things that I'd want to change but like I said, nothing serious.
tbh i dont care how much money he has, cos we always gonna work that out but if he has a job and puts effort into whatever he's doing then its a plus
I care about money
I dont know but if they have a nice personality i guess they will shine more
And very good looks
I am somewhat good looking, but I will improve with a nose job
Why not
Because i believe your imperfection is what makes you special and different from other.. unless it is abnormal
Have you see south korean women many look the same because they all want the perfect face shape they ended up looking all the same (i hope i haven't offend anyone here)
You are already good looking as u say why do you want more?
Because I want to look extremely good, to make up for my other flaws
I know people who look extemely good and they are alone and lonely and thats when i know looks isn't everything... whenever i feel bad about my looks just see those who would have given up everthing to have your current look watching those perfect celebs is bad influence
I said a lot but in the end its still your decision so goodluck
For lazy women, it is certainly their dream man. For women who work hard to reach their goals or make their own money, it is a bonus.
Not to me..
Usually rich guys are douches and have the most unattractive personalities (except for Marilyn Manson)
Only if they are gold digger, but most of all if they are that wealthy and can't get a woman something is wrong within the body not out in the pocket for the body.
What do you mean out in the pocket?
out in the pocket means you pay for everything
Ok, I still don't get what you're referring to though
it Means you dig in and out of your pocket to treat women a lot.
You use your $ and not there's when going out.
Yeah, people can afford to do that when wealthy
Woman's ovaries are drawn to men that can provide them and their children security.
Yes I know, and I don't even want kids but I hope to find a woman who doesn't want them either. Just gotta make money first
To some, it would be an extra attractive attribute. To others, the sole reason for being with him. Whilst many wouldn't care at all.
I want to find a girl when I have lots in my savings that loves me for more than my money
It's not the money, it's that lots of money can buy men surgery to fix their appearance
Actually, it’s not. It’s the power and prestige that comes with the money. The elite rich men do not use plastic surgery.
When I make lots of money, the first thing I'm going to do is get a nose job and perhaps jaw implants and a chin job
There’s no need unless you want to
I want to, I want to look ideal
@AJC997 why would you risk your precious life to please a bullshit society that doesn't care as much as you think it does? plastic surgery is bullcrap. why would you change what you were given? why? i have insecurities, but i would never change what i was born with. never. i value my life over aesthetics. besides, plastic makes you plastic. i would never feel like myself ever again. i would feel like someone who isn't real.
Women will say they are not after money and of course money can't buy love but spend a lot of money on a girl and 9 times out of 10 you will have yourself a girlfriend.
That's why I've got to make good investments
Financial stability is normally seen as an attractive attribute.
Yep, and it's my goal
And how exactly do you plan to be "wealthy"?
Don't want to tell anything and jinx it
Hmm okay
Investing
It certainly is a bonus, but without substance and decent (natural) looks, it won't make a difference.
What about just a nose job?
I prefer natural looks honestly, I'd rather someone have imperfections but be authentic... there are always things we'd rather do to change the way we look but gaining real confidence is about growing to accept yourself the way you are, not what someone else thinks of you.
Ok so how am I supposed to get a date with a girl if I'm only a 6/10? I need to be an 8-9/10 perfect looking celebrity
I can't tell if you're joking or not? Because that's an impossible standard... there are other things you can do of course to improve your looks with noninvasive means, such as a skin care regimen, exercise, healthy diet, new hairstyle, etc
No, my main flaw I feel is my nose, I have a full head of thick hair, but my skin could be better. What do you think is a good skin care routine?
I'm sure it's not too bad -- no one is judging you entirely in one body part. And I wouldn't know, you should consult a dermatologist,
I just don't get why you're so against surgeries, I mean yeah, I guess it's fake, but it is no more fake than putting on makeup. But at the same time, it might not boost you're self esteem because you know it is fake, but then again if it was made from your other body parts it isn't really fake.
True, it's just my opinion, which you asked for. Obviously others may feel differently and that's fine. Everyone has different tastes.
Do you think make up is fake?
I do.
How can I make 10,000 a day?
Tbh I dont really wanna be with someone whose rich but let's say she help me out with my business and aloud me to pay her back then I be find with it so for me it be like an investment so yea
Only to young attractive hot women others don't care coz they know they don't have a chance.
That's how it should be
Ha ha ha!! Haven't you read posts on here from women claiming they're into older men because they have money?
They sometimes say security but we all know what's that about.
No but they'd meet more hot women than regular men.
Naturally, who wouldn't desire financial stability?
Exactly, it should be all our goals
That is the case for many women, yes. Personally I don't think about wealth at all when considering if someone is attractive.
It's a good thing too, it drives the creation of a lot of companies and businesses and innovation
Lmao... the lies will roll of the charts on this one
They even become billionaire for reasons other than just "hard work".
Yeah, that's what I will do
All other things being equal, sure.
What do you mean?
Not the only factor but it does play a role
What are the other factors?
@Kkaos
Money buys cosmetic surgery for looks, gives you self confidence for personality, and gives you automatic high status, because you're a success
Eeeeehh... Not really dude.
Most people wouldn't consider a plastic fake to be naturally good looking, especially in a man. Money doesn't always give you confidence because naturally humans are rarely satisfied with what they have, they always want more - hence the depression in many wealthy people.
The high status one, I agree with more so.
@Kkaos
Ok so now I'm depressed. I feel like the only thing that would make me happy or content is getting a nose job for a better nose, but now you tell me people won't like it cause it's fake, and I feel terrible. I feel my life is over
@Kkaos
I suppose I just have very high standards for myself. Still it's not bad to want to be wealthy with status and resources, in fact it's good
@Kkaos
Do you invest in stock?
Yes... men like big tits, women like big wallets
I think a rich man would want to be with a big walleted woman too
Not true
How? I would
Unless you want to be a sugar daddy.. 😏
I might want to see how it is but I would like a sugar mama
Being wealthy is a plus for everyone.
Exactly, rich girls are attractive
Is this a real question smh
Uh yes, I want the answer so I can have motivation to make my riches
I’m not worthy for a wealthy attractive man
I thought that was a feeling only men felt. Yeah unless you're rich yourself and have good looks ur not. Make money, invest or start a business, and then get surgery
I don’t know what to invest in, but I have been looking at surgeries
Postmates or some cryptocurrency. Do research. I am in the same boat as you. I want rhinoplasty. What about you?
Rhinoplasty, laser for wrinkles and acne scars, chin reduction, jaw slimming, neck tuck.
Don't know what a neck tuck is, but I have kinda acne marks too but there are treatments for them that don't require surgery. You don't need jaw slimming or chin reduction, I actually think a strong jaw on a girl is attractive
Trust me, I even asked a question on Real Self website about surgery. I even posted pictures, some doctors suggested I’m a good candidate for rhinoplasty and chin reduction
A chin reduction is a very invasive procedure. Maybe if you got fillers to create the illusion of horizontal width and a less long face? Or Botox to slim the jaw muscles? They're less risky and costly than jaw surgery. Also you can look at non surgical nose job. But if you want to have plastic surgery, have it for yourself not to attract some rich douche. Because trust me, most rich guys are douches
Probably plays a factor.
no its just a bonus
But it's so nice
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