What is a Saturday girl?

[debi2622]

My boyfriend of 7 months always calls me his Saturday girl. I googled it, and not finding any real answers there. What is a Saturday girl?

[CreativeUsernameV2]

Kind of a weird saying but if you trust him, I'd say maybe it has something to do with "you're the girl he wants to spend his free time with"? Because that's when people usually have their free day? I'd flat out ask him but not mention anything said in these comments. Let him describe it so you can tell if he's lying or not.

[debi2622]

IKR! You could be right though. It does seem that when he says it he has a slight emotional tone to his voice. But asking will be my next step. Was hoping that it was common slang or something that I could find out online. Thanks! :)

[CreativeUsernameV2]

Not a problem! Hope everything works out! 😊

[debi2622]

His integrity level is pretty high, so his calling me that is not a deal breaker for our relationship. Plus we have known each other for years. So what you suggest actually makes sense to me.

[CreativeUsernameV2]

Thats awesome then! Glad I could help

[Brewmaster531]

I have to go with what another guy said. You're the girl he sees on Saturday. Maybe he means it jokingly. He's probably just teasing, but I'd go with that. You're his Saturday girl. He just doesn't have a girl for Sunday-Friday.

[debi2622]

Most likely just teasing me. :) We see each more than just Saturday. He has his kids often each week, so between them and me he really doesn't have time for someone else.

[xobrowneyedbeauty]

all i can't think of is that you're the girl he's with on saturdays. like he gives other girls different days so each girl is a different day girl. are you sure he's your boyfriend and not just a guy you're dating/talking to? lol

[debi2622]

At first that was my thought too. But I know I am the only one he is with. And we see each other more than just Saturdays.

[xobrowneyedbeauty]

then you should ask what that means because i have no other thoughts.

[debi2622]

Yeah - will do that. And our relationship is exclusive bf/gf, and has been for months.

[ciitruskiwi]

I'm assuming he means you are the girl he spends Saturday with. You should really have a talk with him cause that's not cool.

[Diznedude]

I know the song A Sunday Kind of Love. Maybe a take on that?

[debi2622]

Always a possibility!!! :)

[Diznedude]

It sounds very possible. Congratulations.

[debi2622]

Thanks!!!

[Guardian45]

It sounds like your boyfriend has a very "compartmentalized" life. There could be two possible explanations. Are you guys living together or separately?

[debi2622]

Separately. You know, I think his mind does compartmentalize. He has ADHD if that helps. And he has not called me that in over a year.

[Guardian45]

I have PTSD. I am recovered, but I find it best control' my life by scheduling routine. I had a girlfriend who almost exclusively saw on Saturdays. She didn't like it. We broke up.

[debi2622]

We see each other 3 times per week (when he does not have his kids). Saturday always being one of them. So that is why that term confused me. He is set in routine as well.

[Guardian45]

It is a weird kind if compliment! LOL!

[debi2622]

IKR!!!

[Guardian45]

Is any of his children a girl?

[debi2622]

No. All boys.

[Guardian45]

I wouldn't read more into it, unless something else makes you suspicious that there are other women.
I would use the term as a form of endearment.

[debi2622]

I will. I am confident there is no one else. Thank you for your advice. :)

[Guardian45]

No problem. And if things don't work out, then just whistle. You know how to do that, right?

[debi2622]

ROFL - I suck at whistling. When I try my dogs look at me like WTH was that?

[Guardian45]

🤣😂😆

[Anonymous]

The girl he sleeps with on Saturdays unlike Monday, Tuesday, ... he's got one for those days.

[debi2622]

No, I know for a fact that is not true.

[Opinion Owner]

Ya got me. Guilty as charged. lol

I'm clueless, really.

[debi2622]

LOL. Sometimes I think he has own mental dictionary. He's a good solid guy. Just thought I would ask the crowd here and see. Next time he says it, I'll just ask.

[HaveFun_]

Maybe you have met on saturday?
You look very nice tho
And i love older women :)

[debi2622]

We did actually connect on a Saturday. I have known him for years. And one Saturday night he saw me out dancing, and we've been together since.

[debi2622]

And thank you!!

[HaveFun_]

Yeah that may be the reason why he call you that
You are welcome :)

[Britgent1]

Someone who works on a Saturday and is studying hence the name. Hope this clears up for you

[zorro2209]

You would be my every day of the week girl LOL!

[berwise13]

It implys he has a Sun girl & a Mon girl etc.

[Anonymous]

One that's dumped on Sunday.

[Opinion Owner]

www.urbandictionary.com/define.php

[debi2622]

I saw that definition online, and nowhere close to fitting.

[7267864147]

Good morning