Why girls scared of sucking?

[joekilla559]

why are girls scared to suck a dick or act slutty during sex... i thought they loved it when a man controls them

[Kitsuna]

1. Sucking

Cuz they are scared if doing something wrong. Sure, for guys it's the same with licking, but gurls watch less porn and talk less about sex etc. Less info = more insecure.
Also, some guys don't show weather they enjoy the bj..

2. Act slutty

How can a girl that, from nature, isn't slutty confidently act slutty during sex?
Help her by suggesting things to say and encouraging her each time she hits the right words/directions

[joekilla559]

what would u do if u were in this position

[joekilla559]

i try to make her more sluttyer dirty talk keeps me going

[Kitsuna]

Does she like cooking? If so, get some soft meat or something sticky work on it with both your hands and dirty talk whilst doing that. Then she doesn't have to feel uncomfortable about being naked etc, to start with.

[joekilla559]

I've put whip cream on her pussy and tits and tell her she's my dirty slut but when it comes to suck me up she hesates i know when she was with some other guy she would want to suck him up but not me

[joekilla559]

she dont cook do you suck ur man with out complaining

[Kitsuna]

No I don't complain, I even enjoy it. Especially when using chocolate sauce or Smth, it makes it nicer.

I somehow get the feeling that you make her uncomfortable with your dirty talk...

[joekilla559]

i want her to express her self to me i fuck her everyday 4 times a day she likes cosplay ... we rolplay a lot but she's scared to suck on my dick she says she dont like the taste she will suck it but make a disgusted face while she doing it but i seen her suck her ex before she was mine she did him like she was a pro

[joekilla559]

what do you think is my dick to big for her I don't know what to do

[Kitsuna]

If she doesn't like the taste surely use chocolate cream!! You seem to be very open about everything, ask her straight out.

If you think your dick might be too big consider telling her to suck the top only to make it easier

[joekilla559]

i did ask her she said that am to agressive with her mouth she can't breath when i hold her head down.. do j know what i mean

[joekilla559]

plus i guess am the biggest she has sucked or fucked she's gona practice how to swallow my cum when she's deepthroating

[Kitsuna]

See, you expect too much. Don't have your hands on her head when she's sucking - Let her choose her own rhythm!!!
Especially when he has troubles sucking!!!

[joekilla559]

i hold her head down so i could fit it all in her thraot has any one held ur head down during a bj... she sucked me up not that long ago she trys to rush threw it but this time she took her time hella bomb she's never had sucked a big dick thats why she was lagging

[Kitsuna]

Have you ever tried fitting a big dick in your mouth? Jeez, be nice to her... Give her time to get used to it.

[joekilla559]

no have u had a big dick in ur mouth she's used to jst

[joekilla559]

she's never had hardcore sex or told dirty things

[MlleCake]

No, not all women love when a man controls them. Often times when the man is in control, the woman's pleasure needs get pushed to the backburner or get ignored entirely. It takes assertion for women to get what they need sexually.

Have you ever given a blow job? They aren't easy. Eating pussy is much easier.

Why would any woman want to do something that makes someone call he a slut? Slut shaming is rampant in our society.

[joekilla559]

i eat her pussy and i tell her she's my little slut i talk dirty to her cause i like to keep it intresting she has never talked dirty with anyone else they jst used her but i make sure she cums first

[bethshepherd]

Who says they are scared? Get over yourself. Why would they want to? You want to enjoy them and use them for fun, nothing in that for them and vile of you to expect them to. If these are girls who are your proper girlfriend then you are not suited, get another one and replace her. If you hardly know them then good on them for saying no.

[joekilla559]

i take care of her and her needs i jst want her to suck me up better

[bellathethorb]

Bad Joe! No. That's not it. Not all women are 'subs'- let me ask you a question here: would you 'go down' on a girl like that? If yes, don't force the girl. Build her confidence. If no, you're a dick and you shouldn't expect her to do something you're not prepared to do.

[LuWe22]

Because some women are rather be in control than being controlled.

[joekilla559]

witch one are u

[LuWe22]

I'm in control

[joekilla559]

sound like u like to ride the guy

[Anonymous]

their scared of their reputation, and your size. for example, even if they don't suck it, you might wind up going off and telling people they did, which, of course, isn't cool, but, yeah, that can ruin a girls rep. also, some girls don't like certain sizes

[rmgnow]

Someone women enjoy it. But beta males start judging women for it, so they get insecure, and they have to test the guy first to see if he is a beta male. If he is not, they can enjoy themselves

[Aegis_Rex]

Some women might enjoy it, definite not all. Blowjobs can be very difficult for a number of reasons, including size and gag reflex, or simply tit for tat. If you're not going down on her why should she go down on you?

[Repa33]

When guys act arrogant like that its such a turn off

[winterfox10]

Women are insecure about nearly everything. I think it has something to do with the way other women will lampoon each other over the smallest stuff.

[KatherineJ]

Guess what dude: if she is sucking your dick, SHE is in control, NOT you. Get over yourself.

[Yasnah]

Not all women enjoy that. Women dont have to do anything, and if many girls are against it, it might not be them thats the problem

[joekilla559]

i enjoy it thoe how she chokes drippimg full mouth of cum

[Yasnah]

Just because you enjoy it doesn't mean they have to.

[joekilla559]

my girlfriend loves looking at her self in the mirror all cum dripping

[QueenofCups]

Not all the time. Has to feel right.

[joekilla559]

wats right to u i mean am all about her needs

[QueenofCups]

Try licking her

[joekilla559]

i eat her out rub her clit suck on her nipples till she's hella horny moaning

[QueenofCups]

Never mind...

[joekilla559]

ya she's jst scared i guess cause she's never sucked a big dick am her first an she's short but i love the way she moans got any tips for her

[QueenofCups]

Dude, you can't even turn me on... no wonder she's not into it...

[joekilla559]

i turn her on you have to see she gets hella wet she's barly trying new postions and stuff her ex only nuted and diped

[Cartouk]

And this is the exact shit I was talking about

[Desuyonee]

mostly they love sucking cockies

[Kayla45]

Nope

[joekilla559]

no what