Indifferent guys = attractive?

[Anonymous]

Why do women find guys who are indifferent, attractive? Don't you want a guy who is concerned about you and your emotions?

[SaintJonesy]

It's not just indifferent guys, but indifferent girls too. We're an apathetic, lazy, listless society where caring about something is seen as a weakness. Both men and women find apathy attractive, it just is a bigger advantage for men, because, regarding attraction, women aren't held to many standards besides the physical ones.

[gorman24]

Well the problem is you become a friend if you are too concerned. It's a vicious cycle of give and take if it isn't balanced right then it often comes crashing down.

[Amandaå123]

We dont want guys to treat us like flowers when we dont ask for it. If im feeling sorry for myself then yes I love a guy to pitty or help me. But if im trying to have a conversation and come up to a solution its just belitteling and annoying he doesn't take me more serious.

[Carefuloutthere]

If a guy acts like he doesn't care, I'm just going to assume he means it.
I wouldn't think anything else about it.

If i liked him, I'd stop making the effort and move on.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Because indifferent guys tend to be busy and have other passions which is attractive to women, besides women have men chasing them 24/7 so when they see a guy isn't being thirsty for them is like a challenge to them and they wonder why.

[PlasticSpoon]

They have more things going on in their life and they aren't needy.

[KlydePhrog]

They want his attention because they don't have it. Once they get the script flips and then she ignores you.

[DamnMan]

Honestly, I don't know. I'm not into people unless they are into me.

[Bianca914]

It's a game of get him to care pretty much

[your_ego]

im different