I've friendzoned a girl before and she was just downright irritating about it. Heard about similar situations.. had female friends bitch about this 'n that. *Shudder*
Didn't interpret it like you did. Just saying that popular opinion really needs to rethink this one. As for your statement that most don't.. look, even if they don't OVERTLY bitch about it, usually they still try to put together a pity-party and start sh*t from there.
Nope. Some do. Most don't. Regardless, if people have to ask questions like this, it's pretty obvious that they don't know that women get friend zoned. We only know men do because they bitch about it a lot.
I put "overtly" in all caps for a reason. Doesn't mean the percentages are much different.. just happens more subtly.
Plus you can't expect a blue anon here to immediately know this stuff. There tends to be a pretty massive IQ deviation between here and irl. Outside of GaG for me, this is pretty much common knowledge.
Yes. Women get put in the friend zone too. I'm just lucky to have never had that happen to me... Because I'm mistrustful of everyone and don't socialize.
The friend zone isn't real. A woman will just not like a man or the other way around. It's a good coping mechanism for people that are rejected. But RIP the bandaid off now. she's just not that into you.
Yes of course.. I'm not sexually attracted to every female there is. Sometimes she can be attractive but I just don't see her in that way.. Men are less choosy but that doesn't mean anyone will do.
Women get friendzoned a LOT and 99% of the time it's because of looks. When this happens they complain about it and say men are superficial but these are the same women who will friendzone a guy over his haircut and then complain they can't find a good man.
well yeah, guys don't just like every girl they see. Growing up a lot of my crushes didn't like me back, they didn't exactly friendzone me but they let me know they weren't interested by going after other girls.
Yes I do it all the time to women I know what more from me than just being friends. I am not attracted to them or am not feeling them so I put them in the friends zone
Yeah, but they're fine with it as long as they still get all the attention. Same reason they'll keep a man around that obviously wants to fuck, but they have no inition of fucking him... they like the attention.
I have been put in the friend zone. Wasn't a nice experience at all. Since I'm bisexual, I confessed to a girl that I like her but she didn't feel the same way about me. And then after a month or so, she showed me her crush and I was dying inside
Yes. I got rejected by an extremely intelligent and hard working guy last year cause he didn't think i was as smart as him but he was still warm and welcoming and respectful and loyal as a friend.
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LOL @ that girl that said women handle it better. Yea, keyed cars, accusations of being gay or being unable to handle women, or outright anger are all handling it better LOL.
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Just because women don't bitch about it, doesn't mean it doesn't happen.
I beg to differ from personal experience xD
I've friendzoned a girl before and she was just downright irritating about it. Heard about similar situations.. had female friends bitch about this 'n that.
*Shudder*
I don't think I said that ALL women don't bitch about it. Most don't though. Sorry you had to deal with that.
Didn't interpret it like you did. Just saying that popular opinion really needs to rethink this one. As for your statement that most don't.. look, even if they don't OVERTLY bitch about it, usually they still try to put together a pity-party and start sh*t from there.
Thanks. But it was no problem.
Nope. Some do. Most don't. Regardless, if people have to ask questions like this, it's pretty obvious that they don't know that women get friend zoned. We only know men do because they bitch about it a lot.
I put "overtly" in all caps for a reason. Doesn't mean the percentages are much different.. just happens more subtly.
Plus you can't expect a blue anon here to immediately know this stuff. There tends to be a pretty massive IQ deviation between here and irl. Outside of GaG for me, this is pretty much common knowledge.
That's true 😂 The blue anons seem to live under a rock.
um.. yes? Just because we dont whine about it all the fucking time doesn't mean its not happening
If they aren't hot or the guy thinks of her as a sister. Hopefully he doesn't find her hot if she reminds him of his sister 😂
Yeah, it's possible, but I suspect guys may be as likely to use her as a side girl or stash her in the friendzone for future use as a side Girl.
Yes. Women get put in the friend zone too. I'm just lucky to have never had that happen to me... Because I'm mistrustful of everyone and don't socialize.
Yes it has happend to me. Me and my ex “dated” for a month and then he broke up with me and decided that we could just be friends
The friend zone isn't real. A woman will just not like a man or the other way around. It's a good coping mechanism for people that are rejected. But RIP the bandaid off now. she's just not that into you.
Exactly! I dont get why guys think that not having sexual relationships and just being friends is a punishment! THANK YOU!
I didn't expect any positive replies from that lol. Glad other people see it my way
Trust me, LOTS of women agree.
Yes of course..
I'm not sexually attracted to every female there is. Sometimes she can be attractive but I just don't see her in that way..
Men are less choosy but that doesn't mean anyone will do.
you really think men are less choosy?
Women get friendzoned a LOT and 99% of the time it's because of looks. When this happens they complain about it and say men are superficial but these are the same women who will friendzone a guy over his haircut and then complain they can't find a good man.
That "friendzone" claim is annoying. Those who use that term tend to be those with entitlement issues.
Probably yes. The male enjoys her company but doesn't see her as a sexual being or as relationship material.
well yeah, guys don't just like every girl they see. Growing up a lot of my crushes didn't like me back, they didn't exactly friendzone me but they let me know they weren't interested by going after other girls.
Yes I do it all the time to women I know what more from me than just being friends. I am not attracted to them or am not feeling them so I put them in the friends zone
Yeah, but they're fine with it as long as they still get all the attention. Same reason they'll keep a man around that obviously wants to fuck, but they have no inition of fucking him... they like the attention.
The friendzone is a social construct.
Do you mean can you have a woman as just a friend? Yes.
Are women okay with just being friends with guys? Yes.
Do women get turned down? Yes
I have been put in the friend zone. Wasn't a nice experience at all. Since I'm bisexual, I confessed to a girl that I like her but she didn't feel the same way about me. And then after a month or so, she showed me her crush and I was dying inside
Can, yes, but iti s RARE and doesn't mean the same thing as for guys.
absolutely! she was attractive but damned near illiterate. I thought English was her second language at first, nope! Just had a room temperature IQ.
Yes. I got rejected by an extremely intelligent and hard working guy last year cause he didn't think i was as smart as him but he was still warm and welcoming and respectful and loyal as a friend.
LOL @ that girl that said women handle it better. Yea, keyed cars, accusations of being gay or being unable to handle women, or outright anger are all handling it better LOL.
No one said all women couldn't handle it better. There are some that do things like this, just like there are some men who react just as bad.