My ex and I have been seeing each other again, and last weekend we had sex for the first time since we broke up. It was honestly some of the best sex we've had-- passionate, long-lasting, laughing, etc. I pulled out a couple new moves, and she seemed to like them. But she also had something new-- a few times during sex she moaned out "I hate you" or "I f---ing hate you" and then orgasmed. Is this something common? Our sex isn't particularly rough, but she does like spanking/hair pulling. What should I say back when she says she hates me? She tells me jokingly she "hates" me usually when I make her laugh. I'm just wondering if there's a different connotation when it's during sex. I know she obviously doesn't HATE me, but I'd just like to hear from women what fuels them to say that and what they'd like to hear back from the guy.
Maybe she means that she hates the effect that you have on her, the way that you can make her feel. Basically, it's maybe a compliment.
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It's spontaneous emoting. At a guess, she hates that's she's vulnerable to you still, even after the breakup.
Maybe she said that because she hates the fact you're not together but she's under you and definitely not over you.
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She is telling you that she is using you for sex and does not really want to be back together with you.
Why did you break up.
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