So... I've known my friend for over a year now and he's only recently been doing this. he's clearly joking because he laughs and smiles after he says it.
I tried to ask him over text if he actually hates me or not. He said "Honestly Im just going to keep you guessing." Any idea what this all might mean? Does he actually like me or am I over thinking? What should I do?
He's a very sweet guy and I did ask him out once but he declined. He does me favors all the time and is always there when I need him. Im getting mixed signals and decided to come here for clarification. Thanks much!
He's just teasing you - he doesn't hate you, that much is clear. It sounds like that's his personality, and that he probably acts this way around most girls he's comfortable with.
Now, if you're the ONLY girl he acts like this around, then it may be that he's interested, even though he turned down your offer. If you like him, then you should say something like "instead of teasing me at work all the time, you could just ask me out, and maybe you'd get some answers to the questions you obviously have."
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Playful teasing is flirting. I think he is attracted to you. It's how a lot of people dip their toe in the water. A playful tease to see if there is interest without being too direct. The next step, if he's good at flirting, would be some light, inoffensive sexual inuendo to build a littl tension.
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He likes you but he is not sure of the relationship
It means he loves you.
He might be teasing you?
dont worry he does not hate you
Just playful banter
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It’s a joke
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